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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2023
4 points

Yeah, one time when i was 16 i did it in front of father while we were in car (it was embarrassing for me, i still feel ashamed), and other time when i was 18 cause had bad day, i am ashamed of it too...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJun 24, 2023
16 points

i apologize too much when stuttering in front of people

i apologize too much when stuttering in front of people then when i think back to it, i feel like ending myself lol anyone else experience that?...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSuicidal Ideation & High Distress
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2023
18 points

Yep. I’m a 24 m and I cry about it all the time. It’s frustrating bc we should learn to love out stutter and to accept it as it is. Because there’s no cure or any special treatment for it. However, we...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2023
3 points

Stuttering girl here (42 yo, married). Thanks for your courageous post. Sorry this is gonna be a super long self-helpy response - but I feel your issue so strongly. I’ve been wrestling with self-worth...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2023
3 points

First of all, I don't think anyone that stutter like to stutter, but it is what it is. We can't help it, so what is the best we can do? Accept that we stutter and try to work on the insecurities aroun...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2023
1 points

my classmates was kind to me and some of them are my friends, i hid my stutter for 8 months of school idk how i did that and how they didnt notice but one classmate founded out and one day when i was ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2023
3 points

It's hard to not dwell on it, because the shame and embarrassment one feels while stuttering is very awful...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2023
9 points

That's awesome. Yeah, I just discovered this is true also. I just got a job even though I stuttered horribly through the interview. It was painful for both of us and I was embarrassed. I ended up writ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJun 18, 2023
1 points

DAE have like a really weird stutter?

DAE have like a really weird stutter? I wish my stutter was more normal like having a “block” or “stammer” and just going silent but instead i start making such embarrassing and weird noises when I st...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Repetitions & ProlongationsShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJun 17, 2023
30 points

Please tell me that I'm not alone.

Please tell me that I'm not alone. Hi, I'm new to this sub and I have a question for everyone. Has anybody ever had to deal with being bullied due to your stutter, like having people make fun of you ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
1 points

This is exactly what’s going on in my life and I probably couldn’t have described it as closely as you just did....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
1 points

I know what you mean, but I left a previous intern role I hated without anything lined up because I didn’t think it’d be this hard and I think I was disqualified from earlier opportunities because of ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2023
3 points

I just meant it as “I show who I really am”, and yes I am ashamed of it. It’s hard to say but it’s true. Most people aren’t like me and I feel like an outsider. Also, I don’t know why I lied in my po...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2023
1 points

Literally I had a job interview this morning with the same exact experience. Stuttered on nearly every word. When I stuttered the first time she looked at me in a crazed look- as if I had three eyes. ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJun 15, 2023
3 points

Help me out.

Help me out. I am 20 years old, i have been stammering since i was 3-4 years old. I stammer very badly now. Every day for me is like fighting a battle without a weapon. I am going to get admission in ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressShame & EmbarrassmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2023
1 points

Yeah, you’re right. I think it’s just intense frustration from replaying and over analysing everything The thing that hurts is that I have the qualifications/experience for the role and just really ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2023
3 points

“That’s when I show my true colors”. This right here speaks volumes to me. It sounds like you have a lot of shame caused your stutter. Almost like you don’t want people to find out you have one. Your...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2023
7 points

I had an interview last week Wednesday. I stuttered pretty much every other word, and had a handful of long and painful blocks. I spent so much time preparing and taking notes and I knew everything I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJun 15, 2023
1 points

Job Interview

Job Interview Hello I am a 18 year old man with a severe stutter. I just had a job interview and I stuttered on every word and in every sentence. After all of it I would say there is literally a 0% ch...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2023
1 points

You’re 100% correct! No matter how much someone told you it’s not a big deal, things will still be shit if you have a stutter:-(...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception