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postr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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I don't know how to react after this experience (Half rant, half advice)

I don't know how to react after this experience (Half rant, half advice) I (26 m) have mild stuttering (which can easily go up to moderate in certain settings). Today I was feeling quite happy and c...

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postr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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Register

Register Hi I'm from England. I have had a problem with stuttering for about 10 years. Every time I go to school and communicate with my friends it's quite hard sometimes. Even in class when I'm asked...

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postr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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Please tell me there’s a medicine being developed

Please tell me there’s a medicine being developed Be me black Dreads 6’2 V shaped semi muscular build Deep voice Know what to say but can’t say it so people that don’t rlly know me think I’m kind...

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postr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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First post here, asking for tips

First post here, asking for tips Hi all, im a long time lurker and I need some tips. My stutter is not that bad at all to be honest, most of the time I dont stutter and when I tell people that im actu...

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postr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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stuttering takes all my energy

stuttering takes all my energy Do you guys familiar with the feeling of constant fatigue? No matter how well you slept, how well you eat, etc.? Just a few minutes of talking with a severe stutter on p...

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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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OK, looks like we are both adult people who stutter. You, as an adult, maybe no longer have fear of speaking. I don't either anymore, but when I was a teen, I had the fear of speaking because I stut...

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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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As a fellow long time stutterer, I am not of agreement with any of that. Fear is not holding me back. Stuttering, on the other hand, is. It is ill advised and detrimental to health to suggest to a "...

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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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Same... One day, when you feel motivated, you can try ordering diet coke:) Of course you don't have to do it, but small successes make happy...

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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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Awesome :) I always order Coke Zero, rather than Diet Coke, cuz I block on 'Diet'....

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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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I haven't met or heard of anyone else in my life who stutters and I also struggle a lot with social anxiety. My worst stutter/block was around 40 seconds, I believe – it felt like several hours. All b...

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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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I once asked for a coconut late and got a cold coconut late. You figure out why. Well done, I personally find ordering coffee stressful af, LATTE seems an almost impossible word...

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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2023
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We had a great conversation about it! He said from the first time we spoke, he noticed it. He explained it’s obviously when someone is intentionally doing it vs has an actual stutter :)...

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postr/StutterSep 12, 2023
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I talked about my stutter in a job interview.

I talked about my stutter in a job interview. I've always been kind of uncomfortable with telling people I stutter when I first meet them, so I thought I would try that with this job interview to ease...

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postr/StutterSep 12, 2023
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videos of yourself stuttering

videos of yourself stuttering my bad if this has already been asked here, but how you y’all feel about having/watching videos of yourself stuttering? i personally like having them on hand since i some...

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commentr/StutterSep 11, 2023
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I used to think that but it's actually usually the opposite. Most of us (at least in the beginning) will try to avoid conversations and speaking in order to "hide" our stutter. That makes you appear m...

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commentr/StutterSep 11, 2023
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I feel like one of the biggest issues is that people perceive you as scared/not confident, even when you are confident. Your inability to speak your mind and express your thoughts makes it hard someti...

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commentr/StutterSep 11, 2023
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USA here. I’m probably in the minority but in grade school my classmates were very supportive - probably because we grew up together from a very young age. Going to high school was different as I ...

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commentr/StutterSep 11, 2023
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Yes I agree with this, sometimes I have to build up a confidence meter for me to achieve 80-100% fluency. As a pharmacist, if I speak well for the majority of interactions in the morning, I feel way m...

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commentr/StutterSep 10, 2023
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Hey. PWS hide their stutter very well. Speacilly one´s that has a mild type of stuttering. Like myself. I use a lot of avoidance behaviour so people don´t know I stutter. When I tell some people that...

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commentr/StutterSep 10, 2023
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Many hide, many are covert, and some are mild. If you want to find others who stutter (and you should, because it will help), you have to look for them. Many ways to do this, such as the National Stut...

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