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postr/StutterJul 16, 2023
14 points

After-Stuttering: Stuttering recovery rate

After-Stuttering: Stuttering recovery rate I want to talk about the after - stuttering aproach. It is usual to try to elaborate a formula or to make a change in your mindset or mechanicals speech syst...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2023
2 points

For me yes. I have been a stutter my whole life but there have been a big change on my mindset while growing up. When I was a kid, I did´ not feel embarassment because of my stutter. I just feel I was...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2023
2 points

I used to cry and was extremely depressed after such situations with speech blocks. But now it's so funny to remember all that embarassing moments...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2023
4 points

I can't think of a specific situation. But I've had to have atleast 100 experiences through out life when I literally wanted to kill myself right then & there from excruciating embarrassment. In ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2023
1 points

My brainstorm ideas to get tips for stuttering remission: [Research](https://espace.curtin.edu.au/bitstream/handle/20.500.11937/89250/Hart%20AK%202022%20Public.pdf?sequence=1&isAllowed=y): *An In...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentSuicidal Ideation & High DistressStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2023
2 points

Yeahh I've gotten that so many times in school 🙁. It hurts so bad. I just show them my phone number on my contact list and ask them to note it down. I know it's a bad coping mechanism but to hell w...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2023
2 points

All the time when I was younger. I would eat my school lunch in the janitor's closet or behind the school because no one wanted to hang around with the kid who spit and sputtered when talking....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2023
8 points

This one actually happened a few weeks ago. I was doing a demo on a cabin and got hit in the head with a 12 foot 2x6. Nothing serious just a bump but the swelling and black eyes made my wife nervous s...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2023
6 points

Yep all the time but I play it off as a joke most of the time and apologize. Still awkward as hell and ruins the flow of conversation, but the joke kinda salvages what little there is to be salvaged...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2023
5 points

I enjoy solo travelling and exploring new places. So I usually stay in dorms which are quite cheap. So one day while I entered my room I saw a new group had joined and they came up to ask my name. It ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterJul 16, 2023
9 points

Do you guys spit while you stutter?

Do you guys spit while you stutter? That must be my nr.1 hated aspect for my stuttering. When i need to say P for example and i block, my lips press together and sometimes i spit towards the person th...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Physical TensionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2023
3 points

Yeah I don't talk to him anymore. I've had many people smirk or try to hide their laughs but this was the most embarrassing one. Sorry that happened to you at the vet, yeah people are really in a rush...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2023
5 points

That is no friend.. Disgusting. I’ve had many ‘friends’ giggle or smirk or deliberately put me on the spot in front of others knowingly. Some people are so far up their own ass. I had to go to the vet...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2023
5 points

Had many but this one still keeps me up at nights. Just joined university and was talking to a "friend" in cafeteria. He knew about the stutter and everything. 1 question came up about the name of an...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2023
11 points

Idk if this counts but I was probably like 21-22 and I worked at subway at the time (also a woman). This disabled guy came in during the lunch rush, and I’m typically very kind (on shift and off) so ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2023
18 points

I was about 13. Went to the optometrist to pick up the glasses that I had ordered. Went up to the counter and I could not get my name out. Blocking so badly they thought I was chanting or wrong in t...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2023
1 points

I wish i met someone like you. It s important to say how you really feel. I never did it. I felt the same for so many years, from 6 to 18, and i never said how i feel inside, always trying to look nor...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
7 points

OOF. Well, my stuttering really started to be in the spotlight when I turned 14. Strangely enough I wasn’t mocked for it until I turned 18. It was mostly just an internal struggle. I hesitated to rais...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSituational Variability
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
17 points

Stuttering has definitely affected the social aspects of my life. Navigating when to say and how to say takes practice, though I’m often hesitant and anxious to talk to someone without immediately giv...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
5 points

Yea, sorry about that. I try to ignore stuttering as much as possible and I’m in an almost constant state of being upset about it so it’s hard to talk about the subject with anyone. Especially because...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career