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postr/StutterOct 9, 2023
47 points

Has anyone else gotten used to people thinking that they're stupid?

Has anyone else gotten used to people thinking that they're stupid? I think most other stutterers out there can relate to this. But the fact is that the majority of people I meet think I'm stupid beca...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

Fuck no. I bacame an ophthalmologist, I daily talk with around 15-20 patients. Operate around 20-30 patients weekly. In 1 year of practice just one elderly and kinda crazy woman comemented how I am...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

Early on when things were going bad job-wise and social-wise I let it limit my options and I dropped out of school several times to save my ego from perceived embarassment. Perseverance and a FTW atti...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

"I didn't even notice!"

"I didn't even notice!" Hi everyone, I've been stuttering since I was 7, and began speech therapy a few years ago in my early 30s. My stuttering has become drastically more manageable, to the poin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

My advice to everyone who is in university is do not drop out until you did enough presentations and have a classmate in the back row film you speaking so you can review it later. It's an opportunity ...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
School & Academic LifeHiding & ConcealmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

No, why would I? I just ask for extra time during presentations. My parents forced me to live my life mostly just as someone who doesn't have a speech impediment, and I did lots of presentations at hi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

Interview help.

Interview help. I got rejected every interview I attended. They think Iam nervous. But when I say my problem to them then they rejects saying my communication skills are not good.How you guys handle t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

I did not. My courses didn't require lots of presentations. I skipped lots of the presentations I had (losing their grades). The few I did went horrible, all of them. I was stuttering like never befor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
postr/StutterOct 9, 2023
1 points

Did you drop out of university or college because of stuttering?

Did you drop out of university or college because of stuttering? I personally was studying paintings and visual arts, when we had practice that only deals with drawings and paintings, I managed to suc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterOct 8, 2023
1 points

I've been speaking english on discord and noticed a few things.

I've been speaking english on discord and noticed a few things. Hello guys, to start off.. my first language is spanish and i've been studying english seriously 2 years ago. I can say that my speaking...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2023
1 points

Right. This is one way of being a covert stutterer. Some people can live ok with that. Some feel like they never say what they really want to say, are constantly scanning ahead for trouble, feel ex...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterOct 7, 2023
1 points

From stuttering badly as a kid, to it being non-existent going into college, to now me freezing up and it being my worst ever.. I feel so defeated

From stuttering badly as a kid, to it being non-existent going into college, to now me freezing up and it being my worst ever.. I feel so defeated Hello, I feel so damn defeated and helpless it's unr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 7, 2023
1 points

We too make a habit to give weird answer

We too make a habit to give weird answer To escape saying more words , i kind of made a habit of giving weird short answer and make people assume i am weirdo Like my roomate asked why you switch off ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterOct 7, 2023
1 points

Has anyone ever been able to get a support job (tech support, customer service) after telling the company you have a stutter?

Has anyone ever been able to get a support job (tech support, customer service) after telling the company you have a stutter? Ok I know there are people on this sub with varying intensities of stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2023
1 points

This is so right, to others I've always been the "shy" or "quiet" one, but in fact I have plenty to say, but I just can't say it! A life of no proper conversation is a hard one to have...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2023
1 points

This is so right, to others I've always been the "shy" or "quiet" one, but in fact I have plenty to say, but I just can't say it! A life of no proper conversation is a hard one to have...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 7, 2023
1 points

Living on a cabin in the woods ALONE

Living on a cabin in the woods ALONE Hear me out. I don´t live on a cabin in the woods by myself. But I always think that it would give me tremendous benefits regarding my stuttering. My problem has ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2023
1 points

It's not, and that's why my communication is limited to a few words or sentences when I meet new people. I might come across as aloof or disinterested as a result, so I always put on a smile and seem ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterOct 7, 2023
1 points

Is it even possible to enjoy interacting with people while pushing through blocks?

Is it even possible to enjoy interacting with people while pushing through blocks? I just can't connect with people its so painful. Its like i'm severley disabled, both mentally and physically exhaus...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
postr/StutterOct 6, 2023
1 points

Interview

Interview So i'm at a job interview and this is the first time i've disclosed my stutter to an interviewer. I also made it a point to say EXACTLY what I wanted to say. I thought that in doing this, it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment