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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2021
3 points

I wanted to disclose in a funny way, do you have any tips? ​ So far I had: 'I have a stammer, feel free to interrupt me if you didn't get something. I repeat myself by accident and I can...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2021
1 points

I really like this approach, I feel like it puts the idea in their head that it’s totally normal and they’d be weird to even think twice about it...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2021
1 points

Yeah its better to say you stutter, sometimes it makes you feel a little less nervous...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2021
1 points

I don't like disclosing my stutter so I just hope that they will be understanding...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2021
2 points

I think a lot of times people don't know how to react because they don't really even know what is going on. They may have not have ever seen a real stutter before. If you give them a heads up in advan...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterOct 12, 2021
6 points

Do you tell strangers you have a stutter or just assume they’ll be patient?

Do you tell strangers you have a stutter or just assume they’ll be patient? I’m a bartender and my stutter has improved since I was child, but I still get stuck with a few sounds and syllables. It’s a...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2021
4 points

I can't find the source but I remember reading about stuttering on your own name started with unwillingness to reveal who you are, because ... who you are is you are a stutterer. You don't want the w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesIdentity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterOct 11, 2021
5 points

Introduction/Personal Epiphany

Introduction/Personal Epiphany Hi everyone, My name is David and I’ve been following this subreddit for some time. Like many of us, I have had a stutter since I could remember. In elementary school, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringIdentity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2021
1 points

I usually try to let them introduce themselves first, then I can say, Hey (their name) my name is Josh it’s nice to meet you. Not starting on the J of my name helps me a lot....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2021
2 points

I love introducing myself just not the fact that I may stutter on my name so I usually have someone else say my name for me and go from there...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2021
7 points

What I used to do before giving presentations was to tell the audience about my stutter at the beginning if they already didn't know. It eliminates the fear of negative response from the audience in t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterOct 10, 2021
8 points

Doing a presentation in university

Doing a presentation in university In 2 days I have to do a presentation in french in my university. I just need to speak for a few minutes so it's not that bad but I'm really stressed about it. No on...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
1 points

This year I’ve been more open about my stutter with people who are close to me it just feels like it’s not enough....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
2 points

Don’t be afraid to be open with your feelings with people who don’t stutter...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2021
2 points

In my dating experience I never disclose I have a stutter when first talking to someone new I usually hide it until I’m comfortable enough to let it show. My stutter has never detoured anyone away fro...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingDating & Romance
postr/StutterOct 9, 2021
8 points

Online Dating + Stuttering

Online Dating + Stuttering To all the lead-tongued lotharios and disfluent flirts here: I'm dipping my toe into the online dating scene again after a plague-based hiatus and running into an old probl...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2021
6 points

I'm happy to hear that declaring your stutter helps you. It 100% does for me too(and somehow works!) but lately, Im starting to think that doing so will leave a "bad" first impression on the person yo...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2021
3 points

Glad to hear. Yeah, so many problems in life result from a lack of communication and clarity so it helps reduce confusion, awkwardness and sets expectations for everyone when you do that. I sometimes ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2021
4 points

For me I actively like it when people help Me out. I tell people who are closest to me that if they know what I’m going to say just say it. It stops the agony of stuttering and I just find it easier f...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2021
1 points

As a person who’s been stammering since a child I think the best thing you can do is getting him used to expressing his feelings about his stammer and normalising talking about it. Maybe sit him down ...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy