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commentr/StutterSep 7, 2024
2 points

Same. I'm 37 male and I have a good job but it's crippling, I'm feeling so awkward around people and sometimes I feel sorry for my colleagues who must work with me.. I hate my life right now.....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2024
2 points

Hey man, suicide is never an option bro. Life will get better with time and experience. Maybe you need to spend some time looking for entry level roles in mechanical engineering? Make some savings goa...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2024
1 points

Hey man, suicide is never an option bro. Life will get better with time and experience. Maybe you need to spend some time looking for entry level roles in mechanical engineering? Make some savings goa...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
6 points

Checking in at 42. I stutter badly in almost every sentence on average. Sometimes I have physical ticks and my frantic word substitution makes the things I do manage to say sound weird. I'm also twice...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationHope & MotivationEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
1 points

Hi, I actually get on ok at work. I work in a small team of software engineers, so I speak to the same people everyday, by now they are used to how I speak, I am honestly amazed sometimes at just ho...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
3 points

Why do you need to be fluent 100% percent of the time? I still stutter, but so mildly that I don't mind it. I actually browse this sub to look for ideas for Youtube video scripts. I reached this worr...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
1 points

Of course, but HR as you should know, only works for the company, it has never had the employee's interests at heart. I left my last 3 companies due to harassment myself, using HR, so I know exactly ...

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 6, 2024
8 points

OP Mistystza, I would like to say that I am one of those person with whom you are inquiring about to where their stammer has 100% taken over their lives and destroyed any chance of having any semblanc...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
1 points

I worked in research for years, had my own company and work now in consulting as a manager (talking somehow all day long) with a really bad stutter … still more bad days than good days but at least th...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
2 points

Why did you not let the professor know ahead? I can’t tell you how much of a difference it makes in self disclosure. I am hard of hearing and I didn’t go to my in person class because I told my profes...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic LifeEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
1 points

Probably shit stir it up with her husband at home, who is my boss! Then I get a bad rep as I'd be the topic of conversation in the toxic canteen and totally shunned, I'd expect. I cannot afford to l...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
2 points

Stuff like this happens. Keep going! They made you VP for a reason people love you even if you there are embarrassing moments...

Community & SupportSchool & Work
Validation & EmpathyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
1 points

I really felt this. I have been there, too, and there doesn't seem to be a light at the end of the tunnel sometimes. There isn't anything I can say that will make you feel better. But I will say that ...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
2 points

Getting my first proper job took me about 10+ interviews, through each one I got more and more confident and it helped to lower the stammer as I was more trained on the same line of questioning...

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2024
1 points

I’m in the same boat, navigating the job market as a stuttering person is a challenge...

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Employment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
1 points

Do you disclose your stuttering in advance? If not, email them before the interview and let them know that you stutter; then remind them at the start of the interview. This will help relax you, so you...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
3 points

Practice practice practice! I highly recommend getting into the cadence of taking your time during the interview itself. Get some airflow in your mouth. I add reminders in my prep saying “take a bre...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalEmployment & Career
postr/StutterSep 4, 2024
2 points

Do you practice before interviews? What's your routine?

Do you practice before interviews? What's your routine? I have been job hunting for the last 8 months and I get close but just miss opportunities. I spend a lot of time on prep (practicing in the car,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPreparation & Rehearsal+1 more
postr/StutterSep 4, 2024
0 points

Potential 'Training'

Potential 'Training' So I stutter and it's mild and can get fairly extreme at times of high excitement. Are there trainings or lessons that can't/may not be classified as medical treatment that a busi...

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
1 points

One of my teachers who also had a stutter said to me in front of everyone: "You're going to have to work harder than everyone else." I took that to heart and since then have always worked hard. Fast...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerPreparation & Rehearsal