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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2023
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I too am trying to start my online business so I don’t have to talk fo anyone anymore and embarrass myself it’s constant fear going into too work every so I’ve been working hard trying to learn how to...

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postr/StutterSep 28, 2023
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Hoping for a solution soon, my life is getting worse

Hoping for a solution soon, my life is getting worse Hello, I've always stuttered since I can remember.. (Sorry for my bad english as I'm from spain) 22 years old, having an online bussiness, a girlf...

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postr/StutterSep 27, 2023
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A thought

A thought man 27 years old. Colombia. I'm sorry for my English I have mild blockages but you know the limitations this creates. Everything in my life is fine. I have a nice apartment, a family busin...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2023
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Do NOT wait for next year. Do NOT let your stutter run your life. Go after this. Did the leave a voicemail? Reach out to them. TODAY! YOU WILL REGRET THIS THE REST OF YOUR LIFE if you don't act ...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2023
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It only sounds good, but with every blocks , confidence got buried further and further and your decision making get very mess up....

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postr/StutterSep 27, 2023
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Is Stuttereing psychological or neurological

Is Stuttereing psychological or neurological Like some people claim Stuttereing can be cure ,some say it can be control to a level it can't be noticed,some say it is just a bad habit and some says it ...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2023
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Just do it man, fuck it. Sorry if it sounds harsh, but as long as you live in your comfort zone you'll never become comfortable with things like phone calls or presentations. It gets easier just by ...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2023
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Nothing bad would've happened if you'd picked up the phone and stuttered. Sure, maybe it'd have been embarassing at first and you'd have cringed thinking about it the day after, but letting it hold yo...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2023
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I don't think that's a long term strategy because we're not robots. Psychology/mood/emotion can affect stuttering, like many other things can affect it, but it's not the lone switch. Most people's st...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2023
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I think you replied to the wrong thread, but it goes back to the previous sentence. If we are not careful, we create this false narrative that every negative thing in our life is because of our stutt...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2023
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>If we didn't stutter, we would have ALL these things. We would be way too powerful. explain more bro...

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2023
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Are they actually jealous or is that just you projecting? I always felt the mindset of "god thought id be too powerful..." is a coping mechanism and avoidance technique. The ego is being inflated by...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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I really have no career advice, nor do I act. What I do know is, that if you blink, you'll be 25. Blink again, and you will be 32. You're 20 and have nothing to lose. Try your best to tell your st...

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postr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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I am tired of just exisiting

I am tired of just exisiting I want to talk and joke normally,i couldn't able to do it, i don't want to be in mercy of people to understand me,i don't want to repeat same sentence thrice i don't want ...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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"Pain of people who stutter is not determined by age but on how long you go on without accepting stuttering is okay" I was about to post something similar to you ,but i am feeling better after readin...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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After graduation ive been at home for a few months now and my stuttering has gotten so bad that im incredibly scared of going back to social situations. I have blocks so its really hard to get the wor...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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Dam. I feel the exact same way. We all have our vices. But stuttering is so exhausting. I'm always conscious of it. Doing mental gymnastics in my head to avoid stuttering....

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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Right there with you too(also 23 and missed so many milestone). Abused substances for quite a while, stopped all the bad ones, but still smoke weed at night daily and during free time. Hate existing, ...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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Damn man, I'm 24 and I say this to myself almost every day. My reasons are similar to yours. I'm so behind. I still haven't done anything for my stutter and on top of that, I have to deal with all t...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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23 is not too old for teen insecurities. I work with people near retirement that act like teens when it comes to insecurities (and petty gossip but that’s a different topic). Self worth really has no ...

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