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commentr/StutterNov 23, 2018
20 points

I'm a 15 year old guy who also stutters. In my case, I used to be afraid of social interactions and I'm still in some cases. What has worked better for me is thinking in what I want in life: Do I want...

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commentr/StutterNov 23, 2018
1 points

17 here but I don't really care about my stuttering. I do want to get rid of it tho so that's why I joined this sub. I've had many people making jokes or imitating me but I don't take them seriously c...

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commentr/StutterNov 23, 2018
4 points

I don't want to be a pessimist, and I appreciate you commenting on my post, but even with the best speech therapist in the world, chances are that my sutter is never going away completely. At least th...

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commentr/StutterNov 23, 2018
3 points

Hey there! I hear you, it sucks. Have you tried different speech therapists? There are many tools and techniques, other than breathing, that can improve your speech. People can be mean, ignore those w...

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commentr/StutterNov 23, 2018
11 points

I’m sorry that you’re having difficulty with this. This post appeared on /r/new. I know a few people who stutter, and none of us could care less that they stutter. It’s just not a thing. If you’re hav...

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commentr/StutterNov 12, 2018
2 points

Only about 10 people are regularly active right now. It’s not one of those crazy discord servers. People come and go. The best part is the 550 members who are not currently active know they have ...

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postr/StutterNov 11, 2018
9 points

Would you guys be interested in making a group discord for us stutterers?

Would you guys be interested in making a group discord for us stutterers? I thought it would be a cool idea to have a group where we can hang out, chat and if anyone wants to practice their speech or ...

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commentr/StutterNov 10, 2018
1 points

Try not to avoid social situations. Go out and meet new people. You will be surprised that many people without stuttering still have social anxiety. Find clubs to join or find people with common inter...

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commentr/StutterNov 8, 2018
2 points

I started college in another town last year and that was one of the lonliest years for me. I could barely talk to anyone, and while everyone was getting to know eachother I was off to the side. Only t...

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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2018
4 points

You’re not alone my friend. All my friends (From Highschool) are all going out and stuff and I’m just here alone.:...

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commentr/StutterNov 7, 2018
2 points

Hey friend - I wanted to let you know that your friends aren't just with you out of pity. You seem like a caring and thoughtful person, and I know you have valuable things to provide around others. ...

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commentr/StutterOct 30, 2018
3 points

What country do you live in? I feel like connecting with other people who stutter helped reassure me that I could get a job and I could have success in whatever I wanted to do in life. I think it's ha...

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commentr/StutterOct 29, 2018
2 points

Yeah, thank you for the input. : D I feel as long as you are not bother by it, people won’t say anything about it. I’m a talkative mofo among my friends haha, they don’t really care about my speech. A...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2018
1 points

First of all you have to do something about that anxiety, find a hobby, that best way to get friends and felling better in general about yourself. And for the Stutter just talk with people, the more y...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2018
1 points

My stutter comes in waves of weeks or months where it gets really bad I just tried not to focus on it too much. You just have to except that stuttering is part of who you are. There'll be good and bad...

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commentr/StutterOct 28, 2018
3 points

I've lived that life before. If you want to do one thing to improve your life get off of the forums. Lookism, SlutHate, incels.me, /r9k/, socialanxietyforum, r/ForeverAlone are all trash forums and yo...

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postr/StutterOct 15, 2018
8 points

Can't play games and talk at the same time.

Can't play games and talk at the same time. Really makes you an outcast when you can't talk in the voicechat or communicate with people without playing absolute garbage. ...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2018
2 points

I am speaking from experience of going out to clubs and bars with women who stutter in addition to extensive conversations regarding this exact topic. I have been attending The National Stuttering A...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2018
1 points

No but they are fun to hang out with and talk to! Friends are great to have, especially ones who stutter!...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2018
2 points

And don't let it bother you too much. Things happen at their own pace and for us it might take a bit longer than normal. I was always the quiet one when I moved to my new school and it took me a few y...

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