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commentr/StutterMay 14, 2018
1 points

Different people have different views about blocks. Some people view them as an avoidance behavior, not one we do consciously, but one that we have become conditioned to do. We are trying to avoid stu...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2018
5 points

Actually I reasonate with what he said in the podcast. He said that he basically changed his subconcious by repeating 'stop stuttering now' whilst taking the shrooms which I guess helped him access hi...

Coping & AdvocacyMeds & SubstancesIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposurePsychedelics & MicrodosingAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2018
2 points

I try to voluntarily stutter , and do anticipation by myself , but still o cease to stutter. You know like i would voluntarily get my body into the state of stuttering (tensing up , force closing voca...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2018
1 points

It sounds like you’re doing great! You should be proud of being proactive with your speech. I would suggest looking for opportunities to push yourself into disfluent situations enough that they beco...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2018
4 points

It starts by allowing yourself to stutter openly. Stop the resistance....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2018
2 points

I've been in and out of speech therapy and I could only practice fluency with the therapist. I tried using strategies outside of therapy, but I feel like my anxiety would force my disfluency. The st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposurePhysical Tension
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2018
3 points

Stop and smile. Sounds like a terrible idea at the time but it can help defuse tension it uncertainty about your intentions. It helps make it feel more friendly for both people.. and TBH I wish I'd do...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2018
5 points

me too mate you just got to try your best to relax in the situation easier said than done i know but the more you expose yourself the easier it will get....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2018
2 points

I have quite the vivid memories from years ago of me stuttering publicly with people reacting weird about it, so I'm not the person to ask for help in this case. What I can say is that, you're not a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentValidation & EmpathyMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2018
2 points

Highly urge you to reconsider. This is as far of an avoidance mechanism as possible! Changing your name is the same as word replacing, only you are literally losing your identity. The reason you stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2018
1 points

i mean, if you like biting, you can keep doing it! i don't believe that i should tell you how to speak or anything. for me, it was a trick that kind of helped at first and then it got worse and worse ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2018
1 points

My man! Yeah, I'll make sure to focus on cutting it to a minimum. I can't imagine an interview for a professorship. I bet that was a doozy. We crazy as shit....

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2018
2 points

dude, yeah. i used to be a serious biter. i had an interview once for a professorship, and the inside of my mouth was so raw and bloody afterwards, my mouth was in serious pain for like a week afterwa...

Speech & StutteringCoping & Advocacy
Physical TensionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2018
4 points

Starting in low feared situations, or situations you thwt don't matter you can throw away, like ask store attendants questions. You practice each day until you get more comfortable. Part of your pract...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2018
11 points

Laugh it off. Don’t be offended. Laugh with them. Make fun of yourself before they do. Lighten up. These co workers are not laughing at your character or your behavior, it’s just a silly thing. M...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2018
3 points

Hitting our breaking point is when we can change. We don't change when we are comfortable, we get complacent. Once you hit rock bottom you decided to do something about your speech. It's all about fac...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2018
2 points

Sometimes, it is surprising how much easier speaking becomes (at least for me) when i stutter on purpose. If I know a trouble sound is coming up, a make a point to stutter on it hard, but by choosing ...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2018
1 points

Sure. Sorry for not being clear. OP initially asked what people do to combat or fight the urge of holding back, e.g. not saying what you want to say in a given situation. When i do that it’s because o...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2018
1 points

Ah. Ok. I start pseuodostuttering. It helps me feel like I’m in control again and gives me a little extra dose of desensitization when I’m stuttering more. ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2018
12 points

You're the same guy posting about no fap being a magical cure too bro. There's no magic cures just like there isn't a way to instantly lose weight other than calories in < calories out. Only thin...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution