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commentr/StutterAug 10, 2022
1 points

My stutter is too bad to hide. Only way I can hide it is by keeping quiet. But yeah, I think even though we expect them to understand what's going on a lot of people haven't encountered stuttering bef...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling OthersListener Reactions
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2022
2 points

I also want to add that if you just get used to disclosing your stutter, 99.9% of people are nice and don’t care at all. Ever since masks became a thing, I learned that I have to disclose constantly b...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2022
2 points

I absolutely do this. I don't like lying and people who know me will know what I'm doing but in public and on the phone oh yeah like a couple times a week. My avoid is usually to just change words t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 10, 2022
3 points

I've told a lot of people that my name is my last name (father's name) because its easier. I also sometimes tell small lies ir just say that idk about stuff to avoid blocking...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2022
1 points

I told the company I work for I’ve a stutter on the phone and they didn’t mind then when I started no one was told about it 😩 awful defo interview in person I guess but the workplace really doesn’t c...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2022
5 points

That's common. My co-workers recently pointed out my stutter. I mean, they didn't notice it at first, because I transfer all the tension onto my eyes, causing them to be wide open, so they made funny ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2022
2 points

I got [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/hsayq0/i_am_not_owned_by_my_stutter_i_own_it/). I still love it. (if you are around worcester, ma, I can recommend my guy. A+) There are also sev...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling OthersResearch & Resources
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2022
2 points

A lot of people do appreciate disclosure. You'd be surprised how many people have no exposure/education on stuttering. Some interpret severe blocking as mentally handicapped, mental health issues, on ...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2022
5 points

I've been thinking of getting something done like an unmasking theme to represent going from trying to conceal my stuttering to being open about it....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2022
2 points

i’ve been thinking about getting a cute “please be patient” tattoo on my wrist or forearm that i can point to if i’m having a hard time speaking...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2022
3 points

I’ve been tempted to get ‘STUTTER’ up the side of my wrist. If my stutters that bad then I can point to it. Id rather people knew I had a stutter before I spoke...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2022
4 points

I'm still don't confident enough for that but I always have ideas like "your speech is matter" or simple "speak" with some colorful design....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2022
8 points

Tell them you stutter; THAT will help! Difficult I know, but it works…...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2022
2 points

every slp that I have gone to has been useless. they don’t understand the psychology or the mechanics of stuttering. I tried tackling the mechanics with all of them, however, it was evident I knew jus...

Therapy & ProfessionalSocial & Relationships
Seeking TherapyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2022
14 points

Most SLPs don’t even understand stuttering. Also, spending a few seconds disclosing your stutter is actually a major way to reduce your blocks. Do it for you....

Social & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Disclosure & Telling OthersSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2022
7 points

If the phone is a source of anxiety for you, this is THE BEST way to address and reduce that anxiety! I also agree that you should disclose your stuttering at the beginning of the call - another excel...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2022
11 points

Hey, if you get the job offer then take it! You can always leave if it’s not for you. I worked in a call centre for a year. I got pressured into it by my stepdad and I never even knew it was a call ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2022
2 points

Accommodations. If one is considered disabled (and I know many people don’t like word disability) a PWS is entitled to accommodations at work, which levels the playing field for a PWS to do the same...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & CareerAccess & Rights+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2022
2 points

Hi, i also told my parents and my SLP at that age that it did not bother me, but it did, very much so. I just wanted to be like any other kid, and admitting stuttering was a problem did not fit in tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2022
2 points

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years and I didn't notice he stutters until he told me about it a year and a half ago....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others