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commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2024
1 points

I’m in the same boat! I’m 27 and my stutter has been quite severe these past few years. I’d say most days, it was around 6-8. Started using Citalopram in November of 2023; right around when I started ...

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commentr/StutterMedicationFeb 13, 2024
2 points

I’m in the same boat! I’m 27 and my stutter has been quite severe these past few years. I’d say most days, it was around 6-8. Started using Citalopram in November of 2023; right around when I started ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2024
2 points

Alright. "Shitty parenting" is how we access stimulants. Nictotine and sugar may be relatively weak, but when you consider consumption frequency and how it's re-consumed every few seconds/minutes -- n...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesAcceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2024
1 points

Your better than me I'll tell ya that much lol..but honestly you reacted the right way. Let go of the burden of caring so much what others think and life gets alot easier. I certainly haven't mastered...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2024
8 points

A mild stutterer counts as an stutterer, specially if they went from severe to mild. Even if they had gone from severe to non stutterer at all, the memories of being rejected and silenced because of h...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2024
3 points

Oh man. Do I understand this feeling. Every day is hard. Throughout my whole life I’ve just layed in bed at night and wondered why god chose to make my life extra difficult and filled with humiliati...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2024
5 points

I hate my stutter, not myself. But yet the stutter is a part of me. So how could one hate their stutter but not hate themself?...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterFeb 10, 2024
11 points

“Do you have Tourette’s?”

“Do you have Tourette’s?” I got asked in the middle of a conversation do I have Tourette’s & clear as day I responded “no I have a speech impediment”. It’s funny how the old me would have been so upse...

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commentr/StutterMemesFeb 9, 2024
2 points

Honestly, for me it's only bad when I talk to a stutterer that has crippling facial tics. It just kinda makes me feel sorry for them because I don't have it nearly as bad....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterFeb 8, 2024
24 points

Just had the worst interview ever :(

Just had the worst interview ever :( Any kind words or similar experiences please. Couldn’t even talk, like I’m not that bad but I went from a 3 level stutterer to a 8. Diverted eye contact, blocked ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Blocks & StoppagesPhysical TensionAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 7, 2024
2 points

Compelled to say the term ‘words’ when I stutter. Help?

Compelled to say the term ‘words’ when I stutter. Help? So I’ve always had mild cluttered speech and stuttering that comes and goes. It’s minimal now but was extremely bad a couple months ago. Long st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & ProlongationsPhysical Tension+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2024
1 points

I’m am so incredibly sorry and hurt for you. I’ve had a friend who once said “just speak normally” and that’s when I became self-conscious of how I spoke at 11 years old. I am also 18 and am still nav...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2024
5 points

How's that working out for you? Not well, I'd imagine. You wouldn't be posting like this on Reddit if you were happy or even content. Do you want people here to validate your self-hatred? To agree t...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2024
2 points

Again, I understand why many people feel that way. At the same time, I’ve lived with my stutter long enough to have a more introspective approach about it. I’m not in the camp of “accepting” my stutte...

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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2024
4 points

Bro exactly the same for me word for word. I’m alone and am in a constant state of depression/pain because of this. Ive missed out on so fucking much. Everyday is a struggle 😔...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2024
6 points

I have had countless thoughts like this. I really wish my family was more supportive and understanding. It's not even just the embarrassment of contorting my face and banging on the table, it's also t...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSuicidal Ideation & High Distress
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2024
6 points

Oh man, that is absolutely terrible. I'm lucky enough to have a mother who is mostly very supportive of me and at least sympathetic toward my disability. Lets just say, she had some words to say to th...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2024
1 points

Whenever I have a really embarrassing moment when I stutter, I can't move, i get all sweaty and I feel like I'm about to cry from embarrassment. Even though basically no one cares about my stutter, I ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2024
6 points

I find it easier to order in a quiet place where I can put all my “techniques” into practice, of course this doesn’t stop me overthinking and worrying about it in the moments leading up too. But the c...

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Quality of LifeShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterFeb 3, 2024
48 points

Family drama over my speech impediment M18

Family drama over my speech impediment M18 Last night, I went out to eat for my sisters birthday with my other sister and her children. Eating at restaraunts has always been a big source of anxiety an...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying