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postr/StutterJan 14, 2024
26 points

How are you able to have a normal life?

How are you able to have a normal life? I have been stuttering since I was a child, as a defense mechanism, I isolated myself my whole life because of it. Which obviously had a major effect on my m...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencySadness & HopelessnessQuality of Life+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
1 points

I do, and the worst part is that people never take you seriously, or think you're mentally disabled because of it....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
6 points

I understand when people say it doesn’t define you but I have never liked it. It DOES feel like it defines you and in many ways it does, as it determines how you interact with the world and your life ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
2 points

What we have, what we consume, what we engage in, how well we communicate, how much money we have becomes a yardstick in which we measure and compare ourselves against others. I’m almost convinced t...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
5 points

I understand how you feel, but that's part of stuttering unfortunately. Life has taught me to just roll with it now, it'll get better OP. Just keep on pushing forward and try not to let it get you dow...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
10 points

I feel it getting worse at such a pivotal time in my life and not being able to control it is killing me...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2024
1 points

It wasn’t a mindset shift. I had a planned operation and told my doctor about my stutter but the nurse didn’t understand it meant I would be unable to call for help with my voice, and she didn’t give...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2024
2 points

Its hard and tiresome to read a single block. Am content now....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2024
1 points

I’m sorry, that was never my intention. I was just having a low self esteem moment and was referring to myself although I know it’s not true. Becoming an adult when you have a stutter is really scary ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2024
34 points

The most important question here is: Do you think someone is worthy of your attention if they avoid you all because of a stutter?...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2024
2 points

Absolutely, it honestly makes me feel so awkward sometimes. Like my brain just stopped working when my tongue wasn't done with my entire sentence. It makes me feel so much more challenged than I alrea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJan 9, 2024
11 points

I hate school

I hate school Idk if its just the Norwegian school system who does this, but being talkative at class is so important that even if I get A’s in my written assignments they will still drag it down to a...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2024
3 points

So theres no hope for me if i stutter even when im alone/with animals...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2024
1 points

Dear Veronica, I don't have any answer to that question. I'm broke too. Penniless. Unemployed. Shattered dreams. Can't keep jobs due to this issue. I read your posts. I read about your dreams. I rea...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2024
1 points

This is super positive but also super hard to change your mindset when there is so much evidence that the reason you became homeless was because you couldn’t work and the reason you couldn’t work is b...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of LifeSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2024
3 points

Yep. It wears you down. Your world shrinks. Your ability to make money. Social. The whole lot. What can we do? There’s nothing we can do but keep going. Enjoy what we can in life. And accept our stutt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 7, 2024
5 points

Hell, no. I'd rather do a job that I like and don't feel horribly comfortable in. My stammer relatively mild these days, but I still hate talking to customers on the phone. There's persisting and dev...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJan 7, 2024
38 points

how to live with a severe stutter?

how to live with a severe stutter? All my life I made one wish and prayed every day - to be able to talk. I tried all possible techniques and methods of healing. but all in vain. I found myself lonely...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterJan 6, 2024
1 points

Is speech therapy worth it as a adult?

Is speech therapy worth it as a adult? How does it feel to know you’re never going to make it to your full potential socially (which dictates a lot of QOL)? Knowing that if you could just do something...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2024
1 points

> allow me to live comfortably and something that's low stress Straight off, unless you're born into wealth this does not exist. However, that doesn't mean you can't be happy - you say you have no ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life