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postr/StutterFeb 17, 2024
1 points

Panic Attacks

Panic Attacks I have recently started to get frequent panic attacks because of my stuttering in university. It gets worse over the years. Shame and anxiety don't pass. I wish I could survive without s...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentTrauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 16, 2024
30 points

Heavily mocked by a taxi driver

Heavily mocked by a taxi driver I just don't care anymore. Can't feel anything, good or bad. Life is just a bad joke....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
1 points

I'm 48 and just stuttered in a meeting the other day. Couldn't say agreement and blocked for like 30 seconds. It was really embarrassing. It feels horrible when it happens. The way people look at you ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
1 points

No. It's shameful. Also we should care because we live in a society, not in wilderness. Try anything you can in order to reduce your stuttering. It's not a thing to be proud of....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
1 points

I'm 17 too, and I'm in year 12 (I'm from England, and so i think that's junior year in the US) and so I think we've probably had similar experiences up to now. I'm sorry you had a bad experience with ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
School & Academic LifeShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
1 points

I’m so sorry you are going through this. I had just as much of a hard time in high school. In fact I still have vivid dreams about embarrassing presentations and getting called on to read and barely b...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic LifeIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
2 points

Hi. I've been there. Speaking out loud in class felt like one of the worth things ever and that was in the 70s/80s. I know how you feel. ​ Regarding your friends, if they are your friends, ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic LifeValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
21 points

Have you become numb by people’s reactions to your stutter?

Have you become numb by people’s reactions to your stutter? Like you don’t care anymore. Like you don’t feel ashamed anymore. Has it gotten to this point already? Listening to Numb by Linkin Park mig...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
3 points

I would suggest talking to your teacher about it and see if you can do an alternate assignment. They should be understanding. I know for me it was a relief just to tell someone I stuttered instead of ...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Advice OfferedShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
2 points

A lot of us feel less important. Stuttering does real damage to our sense of self worth. Today needs to be the day you look in the mirror and see the most important person in the world. Every time ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
1 points

I remember basically getting gang banged by 4 DIs my first day in my platoon because I started stuttering when we were sounding off, they were like “scream out your face”😂😂...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
1 points

I went in when I was 21, it wasn’t really that hard but my stutter just made it so much worse, I still have nightmares about it haha, kind recluses my self from life after that lol, nothing but failur...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
1 points

I have big relation to what you’ve went through and I am to experience it tomorrow, a painful presentation, the mockery and disgust pointed just as you said. I don’t mean to speak of negativity but we...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2024
7 points

I’m so sorry to hear how you are feeling about this. As some people have already said, high school itself can be rough and teenagers can be shitty. So hang in there and endure a little bit more until ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
3 points

I still have dreams of fire watch , it was horrible I couldn’t even get the first sentence out, my DI asked how i even got thru Melps that I was mentally retarted that I couldn’t even talk, that did i...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
14 points

Just one bad day dsnt define ur life. The bright side is despite of knowing ur limitations you had the courage to face the audience and complete the presentation. Dont let stutter define ur persona. E...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
47 points

I’m done

I’m done I’m 17 and in my senior year of high school. I had to give a 15 minute presentation last week that eventually turned into a complete disaster. My stutter has been unbearably worse this past ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesRepetitions & ProlongationsPhysical Tension+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
27 points

They laughed at me.

They laughed at me. I was in school waiting outside the classroom for the teacher to open up (she was running late and the class was already waiting outside it). I leaned up against a wall to wait, no...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesPhysical TensionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2024
1 points

I know exactly what you are talking about. I've been fairly fluent these past 3ish years and I had this moment happen to my last Saturday when I had to ask for a to-go box. Ngl I was embarrassed, but...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterFeb 13, 2024
17 points

Letting everything out

Letting everything out I just came across this sub and wanted to let everything I have about my stutter because I feel like you all will understand. I am fifteen years old and have had a stutter for...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Experiential AssociationShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying+3 more