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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
1 points

I agree 100% with this. I'm in this point and it's awesome. For example, yesterday I rolled down the window of my car to politely interrupt 2 guys talking near of a car to ask them if they were going...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureQuality of Life
postr/StutterJul 8, 2020
70 points

It doesn’t that we stutter, it matters HOW we stutter

It doesn’t that we stutter, it matters HOW we stutter This is basically the only thing that has given me substantial relief whether i stutter a lot or a little and that is to stutter with proudly with...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2020
3 points

Exposure therapy mostly (never avoiding talking even when I have the option to) once I start avoiding things like ordering food or talking on the phone and stuff like that they become worse for me. I...

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Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJul 8, 2020
7 points

Stuttering as a form of negative autosuggestion/self hypnosis

Stuttering as a form of negative autosuggestion/self hypnosis So, over quite a long time I have formed this theory about how my stutter works. I say 'my stutter' because I think it's entirely possible...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringTrauma & PsychologicalVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2020
5 points

You are very right. I think there is so much shame, embarrassment, fear, guilt, anger, denial, and hopelessness built up from childhood when you stutter that you don't want to stutter, even though in ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2020
6 points

This. It’s all about desensitizing yourself to the situation. Eventually you get used to it so your anxiety levels aren’t as high. Works for some people especially those with mild-moderate stutters....

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Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2020
1 points

It is hard I know, It is frustrating I know. Sometimes it feels unbearable, but... It will not disappear in one day, maybe it will not disappear in one year.. but that is the real problem our wanting ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
1 points

I think being afraid to speak is a phase anyone who stutter have been through. You need to understand that if you someone has in issue with it it’s their fault not yours. For me, to get over that fear...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2020
1 points

When you face a problem that scares you and you do it voluntarily, then that means you're a very strong person. You should definitely do it, your confidence is gonna grow over time and you're gonna st...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2020
17 points

Daily things that help me: (1) Mindful meditation- 10 mins (2) Read out loud - 10 mins (3) Practice diaphragmatic breathing My biggest breakthrough is LEARNING to not focus on my stutter; I focus o...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Mindfulness & BreathingVoluntary Stuttering & ExposurePositive Therapy Techniques
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2020
1 points

wow that's so good for you i do put myself in awkward position, like i wantedly ask doubts in class to make myself comfortable But still a spontaneous conversation with strangers is still a big hur...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2020
1 points

Eeeeeeeee (softly, gently prolonging my first syllable) as I ease into what I want to s-s-say (fake stutter, so I can stop trying to NOT stutter). It’s all a lie. Stuttering really does NOT preven...

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Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2020
2 points

Also try speech therapy with someone who mostly treats stutterers. Things that helped me were releasing a small amount of breath first, prolonging the first syllable, and doing a little fa...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Fluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2020
2 points

I completely empathise with you. I developed stammering at the age of 15. Two years back I seeked out professional help. But I did not learn the mechanics of improving my speech. Rather, I was asked t...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & MotivationMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2020
2 points

I've been talking to myself in the mirror for years. I practice my name, greetings and everyday words that I have difficulty with. I can truly say that talking in the mirror has helped me with my st...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2020
0 points

Another technique is to not say the words you block very hard, say it very lightly if that makes sense, it’s called easy onset. Also for me the technique that works is my taking my finger and walking ...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2020
1 points

My speech therapist long ago suggested two strategies that were helpful for me. She suggested that I might have an easier start to a word by prrrrrol-longing the first syllable. I did find th...

Coping & Advocacy
Fluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2020
2 points

I can't say I'm no longer struggling with the negative effects of my stutter but I guess I've made pretty good progress in the self-acceptance department these last few years. Here are a few things th...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2020
6 points

I joined this group when my brother (who stutters) used my phone to look at this a while back but I didn’t leave the group. I just want to give a point of view of someone who doesn’t stutter at how cr...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2020
1 points

Hey man, I can definitely relate! How much are you interacting with people now, due to quarantine? In my experience and others I have spoken to, more exposure to uncomfortable experiences relating to ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more