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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2023
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Forty years for me. I don't let it define who I am, like I did when I was younger. I faced my fears of talking - Toastmasters really helped but it took 1-2 years of doing speeches to get comfortable ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2023
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I don't know is it best advice, but making fun of yourself is working fine for me. I already don't care about my stutter btw. If someone tell me "if i am having a stroke" i would answer it like "yes ...

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Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2023
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Should i just try to be extroverted and talk to as much people as i can and just tell myself “whatever happens… happens”. I fr feel so extroverted having a lot of thoughts/conversations in my head but...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2023
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This is good! It’s a roller coaster, but getting to the point where you can say “fuck them” and move on, the highs last longer than the lows on that roller coaster, and people see you for you, not you...

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Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2023
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That guy must be reported. Totally unacceptable. That said, life will get immeasurably better when you come to peace with being a person that stutters. My 16 year old son refused to accept it for yea...

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Mindset shiftHope & MotivationSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2023
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I had the same beliefs you did and thought it was never going away, and I ran into OPs posts a week ago and bought the book and I've already seen improvement. Literally last night I said the word "mob...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 1, 2023
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I’m 50, from Toronto and a electrician. I felt the same way about my stuttering years ago. I was depressed as a teenager and early 20’s, over weight and anti-social. I woke up one day and said to myse...

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Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2023
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Remember stuttering at age 5. Speech therapy my through my life. Nothing worked. Lived at the fork: choose being true to myself or avoiding shame. At age 23 - I was ready to go all in and face whateve...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2023
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1. Fuck him - next time tell any thoughtless human - “this is how I how my courage muscle” before speaking. Be a mirror for other people. 2. Use the mantra “now is not forever - and I feel free” 3. T...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2023
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It is what it is, don’t get stuck on living in the past. Just make sure it doesn’t happen again in the future!...

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Mindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2023
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The biggest takeaway I got from your post is when you said “no one understands my pain, not even my family”. This hits so close to home, no one in the world understands what we go through. Even ord...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2023
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I love a good acceptance post here. I am not religious but I don't think this message *requires* faith in God to work. I don't think this post is even pushing god. It's about faith in yourself that yo...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2023
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Hello, are you going through anything else? Maybe going back to school, or something that triggers anxiety? I have the same problem, and I am certain that anxiety is subconcsiously triggered with some...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
postr/StutterAug 30, 2023
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Discovering Peace Within: guiding stuttering progress with inner strength, embracing opportunities for growth, and navigating life's path with resilience

Discovering Peace Within: guiding stuttering progress with inner strength, embracing opportunities for growth, and navigating life's path with resilience ...

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commentr/StutterAug 30, 2023
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Some people argue that traditional speech therapy may be counterproductive to dissolving stuttering. The over tendency to control one´s speech can lead to less fluency and spontaneity when speaking. ...

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Therapy ExperiencesMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2023
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Unless someone has overcome stuttering themselves how can they really help you? Seek your own way, become obsessed with becoming free. Be ok with a long-game....

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Hope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2023
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I thought this was an easy answer for me but turns out: It's not. I'd like to drop my thoughts here and would love to hear about your opinion on it as well! :) Yes, I think you can overcome stutterin...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2023
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This is the answer of answers ^^ as someone who just left college with a block stutter, people rarely mention it or care. Usually very understanding. Join as many clubs as you can and get out of your ...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2023
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These are years that you’ll always look back on but will never be able to live again. Don’t make the mistake I did and let it hinder you. Be yourself; you’ll make friends, and a-holes will weed out t...

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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2023
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I was in your position this time last year. Currently going into second year of university and I have a moderate stutter. The start of college last year was terrifying, but the year was honestly one o...

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School & Academic LifeMindset shiftFriendships & Belonging