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postr/StutterJun 25, 2024
20 points

I can’t hold a job

I can’t hold a job I’m no call no showing today at a new job cause they said I’d work the counter and ask people what they want I’m down a bunch of money and need this shit so bad. All jobs end with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2024
3 points

It's a bit like sleep ain't it. The harder you try the less you are likely to fall asleep. You have to just accept that you need to lie down still. ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2024
3 points

It's not absurd at all. Its is surprisingly one of the fewest things that is simple to explain. It's just consciousness. If you are conscious and doubt yourself you will definitely stutter. But inst...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringSituational VariabilityHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2024
2 points

I don’t want to discourage stuttering community. However, this is my thoughts on our situation. Yes, we have this condition and should live with this. Some of us manage to control it and feel no li...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencyAcceptance & PrideSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJun 23, 2024
1 points

I felt this way forever. Now I really don’t anymore. But looking back, especially when I was at school, worrying about the stutter was a much bigger problem than the stutter itself. I wasted most o...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
8 points

Create an identity statement. You behave and perform based on who you believe you are. Use your identity statement to reinforce who you want to be. Example identity statement - I am not afraid to st...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
7 points

Easy. You show up. Being hesitant about applying for jobs because you’ll have trouble speaking at the interview is quite simply letting it kick your ass. So you show up, and let it be what it is. You...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
2 points

I never felt happy in my life, don't know how you do it, it's some kind of skill I think...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2024
1 points

I understand your struggle. If I didn’t stutter, I’d be so outgoing, happy and speak to crowds, but I can’t....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterJun 21, 2024
5 points

I’m 16 years old and I’ve had a stutter on and off for my whole life

I’m 16 years old and I’ve had a stutter on and off for my whole life My stutter comes and goes but this time it’s stayed for a significantly longer time than usual and I don’t see it going away any ti...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2024
2 points

It is depressing and it is understandable why. As social creatures we have an innate desire to be accepted by and loved by others. Its hard to love ourselves when others around you don't accept you fo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessLoneliness & IsolationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2024
1 points

It’s always been the same on here over the years. It’s unfortunate, but it’s just simply a fact that stuttering can be painful, traumatic, isolating amongst many other things. I also think a lot of y...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathySadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2024
2 points

If the hiring team had that impression, that impression already exists. Your withdrawing your application will not change that impression. The interviewers will still think what they think. That ship ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2024
2 points

I'm 25 - my parents have spent well over $10k on therapy and nothing has worked. I've dealt with the same issues ever since I was very young. I recall the times when I was in elementary school and I w...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 17, 2024
6 points

>Self love and self kindness is the only way any of us are going to live peacefully You're right. As another user said, it's a cycle. We must find a way to break it. I thought I did, but then a bad e...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJun 16, 2024
28 points

Stammering is ruining my life!!

Stammering is ruining my life!! Backstory: I am a 27 year old man living in the UK and I have a stammer. I have had it since the age of six. It has definitely shaped who I have become. I was born extr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
2 points

The truth is that taking it subjectively and/or objectively could be very different. A PWS if he/she is obsessed with the difficulty (even a light one), can perceive it as a tragedy. I knew one g...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
3 points

I struggle with all vowels and most consonants , at this point it takes so much energy to speak that I choose to stay silent or if convey - convey in writing so that I don't go through that excruciati...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
2 points

True I hope I can get the same mental toughness as you but the face of rejection from various institutes repeatedly on face because I stutter has kind of shattered me to the core . It's just sad at th...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencySadness & HopelessnessSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
10 points

Saying 'No one cares about your stutter', is just a way of dismissing or invalidating the lived experience of stuttering with all its challenges and difficulties. Often it's well-meant, but it's wrong...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Medicalization / NeurodiversityHelplessness & Agency