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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
1 points

I've probably read close to a dozen books about stuttering from cover to back and some times they helped mask my stutter, but nothing felt natural. I became fluent only after I tripped over the root o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
1 points

I stutter badly on my first name but not on my middle name, so I use that instead. My middle name is also a common first name, so that makes it convenient for me. Maybe you could use an alternative n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 7, 2018
11 points

How do you develop social skills?

How do you develop social skills? I'm in my second semester of community college and realize that I have basically no social skills. I don't know how to conversations, make small-talk, or interact wit...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Friendships & BelongingAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2018
2 points

I've put in a lot of work over my whole life to stay strong hoping 1 day it just magically disappears but deep down i know it wont :(...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2018
2 points

I enjoy reading stories about peoples successes, but I do take issue with one thing. 'finding another word' is not a viable long term strategy. Yes it can help you escape certain situations. I am guil...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2018
2 points

You hit the nail on the head on this one. I’m so used to finding synonyms for words I‘m about to block on that once I get to something like my name, in which there’s no substitute, is when I freeze up...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2018
2 points

I do stutter sometimes on my own name too. Unfortunately there is no word you could swap out your name with... I try to play it off or just chuckle. People will usually not notice or just smile back. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
postr/StutterMar 5, 2018
10 points

Trouble with Introducing Myself...

Trouble with Introducing Myself... Hey guys - I’ve never posted to this sub and am still new but I’ve been struggling with a stutter since as long as I can remember. I work in a profession where I’m ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2018
7 points

This is such a great story for me to read. I recently slightly changed career paths (was working for an ad agency but pivoted to work on the ad sales side). This requires me to present to big ad agenc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2018
1 points

Yeah it took me a while to not sound robotic. Its not perfect. And I still stutter occasionally. But at least its something to try....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2018
2 points

A couple of caveats. My stutter was pretty mild, but complicated by some other speech impediments. I have no idea if this works for other people (a quick google search says that it worked for Emily ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityRoles & Performance+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2018
4 points

Starting in low feared situations, or situations you thwt don't matter you can throw away, like ask store attendants questions. You practice each day until you get more comfortable. Part of your pract...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFluency Techniques+1 more
postr/StutterMar 3, 2018
7 points

Someone here not stuttering at all when speaking other languages?

Someone here not stuttering at all when speaking other languages? I cant exactly describe the problem and that is part of the reason im here. I ve stuttered since I was a child and I ve had good and b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionTrauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2018
1 points

Thanks, I was kind of hesitant to put it up because I wasn't sure if it'd help at all. My story is 100% true. I can't tell you how many times a day I STILL avoid social interaction, and substitute wo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2018
1 points

I have the same problems as you. What I personally do is to not make a big deal out of it and accept that it'll happen. The main thing I do though is make fun of myself, which then leads my friends to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2018
2 points

I use a technique called "smooth speech." It's usually used for a repetitive stutter (which is what I have) and it sometimes works depending on the situation I'm in. All you do is prolong your stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2018
2 points

Well personally, speaking slower hardly helps for me, and speech therapy did next to nothing. I know how you feel. I took sign language in high school as my second language. It was so relaxing to no...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2018
4 points

I haven’t found any videos or anything of the sort that doesn’t just say “speak slower” or “take speech therapy” so that’d actually be great seeing as my stutter is only becoming worse. I don’t live w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2018
2 points

Well, for the first part, you write this: >the first thought that pops to my mind, aside from completing my sentence, is how not to loose my friend's attention You'd have to stop worrying about t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyListener Reactions
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2018
1 points

Thanks for your tips, I do similar to what you do. One weird tip I read about in a book about stuttering said, if you can't say a name, try and sing it or make it into a tune. It does sound a bit wei...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityFluency Techniques