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commentr/StutterNov 4, 2023
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> but at the same time I just want him to know it doesn’t change anything about who he is or how I view him. Tell him this. Some of us are really cagey about our stutter. Be forthright with him. ...

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commentr/StutterNov 4, 2023
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I think I've quite a similar stutter to your boyfriend, in that some people in passing wouldn't maybe realise that I had one. I'd be someone who would bring it up though, I told my fiancé even before...

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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2023
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I think the best and only way is to ease it is 2 have a mindset of not giving af .. if you stutter, you stutter. Work through it, sound it out. Pause..whatever , just make sure you say what you need t...

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postr/StutterNov 3, 2023
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Don't take your stutter too seriously!

Don't take your stutter too seriously! First of all, I want to acknowledge that I'm a moderate to severe stutterer and a medical student. It appears that there are some stutterers who make stutter the...

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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2023
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I relate with you man.. even I stutter saying my own name I think my stutter lies between light to moderate ig, but what I did to tackle situations like this was to get engrossed into what the othe...

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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2023
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I have a stutter and I still feel like superman. Girls laugh, it makes my friends laugh, long as you can laugh with them its not so bad. Just slow down. Ur brain is working faster than ur body...

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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2023
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Uh dont ever say that. Dont ever think about what couldve been. Thats a waste of time and energy. You need to work with whats given to you. You arent cursed. Its a blessing. How many times would u hav...

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commentr/StutterNov 3, 2023
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18-22. when I was in school I didn't get bullied much thankfully and when I did I would defend myself and fight back which isn't the best move but it earned me respect. But when I graduated hs and wen...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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No I think he posted because he wanted to help other stutterer get out of a victim mindset because it doesn't them no good, only leads to continued misery. He wanted to encourage people stuttering c...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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Hey, love the message you're sharing. What's the saying ? Fall down 10,000 times, get up 10,001 times. As stutterers, we live a life where our voice constantly fails us. As it's only natural that we...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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I guarantee you, most, if not all of us have had a similar experience. what do you have to loose trying to get better? what would you else do with your time? if it doesnt work at all, then what did yo...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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then not an hour, and not exactly that. Find out, what helpd you. Trust, that you find a solution as many of us did. If you didnt care, about fixing this problem, then why did post here? What did yo...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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Yea but when you put in that time, you can at least say you tried it and move on. Or would you rather go your whole life without trying anything or putting in the needed effort? And I'm sure it won'...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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My mindset is set to gratitude. Gratitude for being alive. For the food in my refrigerator. For my mental and physical healthy. I am grateful for training my mind to focus on the Good and Positive....

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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Sunk cost fallacy. Move on and find someone else. Dont get hung up, you're doing your best and want to improve. Look forward to better days ahead homey...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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Im 27 years old. I've had a stutter since I was 8 or so. Ive never once thought that I couldnt create my own happiness. I've found people who dont care about my stutter and they are some of my best fr...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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If that is what you believe than that it was is so. Personally I do NOT think a stutter would keep you from being a pilot. Let me ask you a question. Do you think anyone is so hard on themselves fo...

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commentr/StutterNov 2, 2023
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Its not a curse, its just lifes of way of keeping you grounded. If you didnt have your stutter you would be too powerful. Plus do some research, alot of famous and influential people had a stammer or ...

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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2023
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Choice is definitely not simple. When I say choice, I don't mean instantaneously flipping a switch, but a compounding effect. I'll take dating as an example. You see a pretty girl you want to approach...

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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2023
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I kind of agree with you. I don’t believe choice is so simple though. I choose to not care about how most people perceive me. Experiences I’ve had, my personality, the way I was raised, and the seve...

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