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commentr/StutterMay 26, 2023
2 points

Couple things first, hope this doesn’t sound like I’m a dick. A stutter and stammer are the same things (stutter is US version and Stammer is UK). Secondly, a stutter is a disability since we are unab...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2023
1 points

О, о, да, я постоянно чувствую легкое пренебрежение учителей, когда отвечаю на их уроках.Некоторые намеренно перебивают меня.Некоторые люди вообще делают тебя человека с ограниченными возможностями и ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2023
1 points

Just tell them you have a stutter in a mature way...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2023
6 points

Yep! I think it's the lack of stress. There's no need to hide anything if the people you're talking to are aware of it and expect it to happen...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2023
1 points

Disclosing your stutter in the sense, do you try to disclose it to every person you meet? Or is it opening up to few close people in your life?...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 23, 2023
3 points

I’m most comfortable when people just ignore my stutter. Different people have different ways and yes some will basically guess what you are going to say and ‘help’ you by answering or completing it. ...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2023
1 points

First of all, fuck that guy. Second, you should report him to upper management or HR. Maybe look into your gym’s contact information and consider emailing a detailed report of what happened and his ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2023
1 points

>Declare your stutter. "I have a stutter. As painful as it's going to be for you to listen to this presentation, it's much harder for me. Thanks for your kindness." In my experience, this is all t...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & EmpathyAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2023
3 points

I didn't start openly telling people until college. Wish I had done it since 4th or 5th grade. The feeling of not hiding something anymore is incredible. Yeah my buddy's joke was such a full circle ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & PrideHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2023
1 points

Awesome. This is the way. I'm still stuttering myself, but I've been being incredibly open about to everybody I come in contact with. It helps A LOT to release a load of anxiety, making me way more re...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMay 18, 2023
3 points

Do you disclose your stutter at the beginning of the interview? I started doing that and it definitely helps. It's also a way to gauge how they respond to it thus helping decide if you want to work th...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 17, 2023
2 points

Yeah it sounds shady and prob gets worse when ur nervous. Just openly disclose ur stutter as the first thing u say...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2023
3 points

Would you be able to disclose at the beginning of an interview that you stutter? You can do it with confidence, not as an apology....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2023
2 points

39 year old male here. Persistent stutter since I was 7. The most impactful thing I ever did for myself was to start telling people exactly what was going on. I didn't do it until college, but I would...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2023
2 points

It's not some small inconvenience at all. And there is likely no cure during your lifetime. I'll never say this is easy, but ever since I started telling people, even strangers who just chuckled at ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 16, 2023
9 points

Why will being asked if I have a stutter always feel so gut wrenching. Like I’m being outed

Why will being asked if I have a stutter always feel so gut wrenching. Like I’m being outed ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2023
2 points

I've been streaming and making youtube clips for a few years now. I'm not famous by any means (62 on Twitch, and 550ish on Youtube). I've never had anyone comment on my stutter, even when in my mind ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2023
1 points

I also have a speech impediment, I've had it my whole life but it's gotten alot better as I've grown up but it's still there. It's just weird because some days will be really good where it barely happ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2023
2 points

A colleague told me I was brave for talking about my stutter during a conversation about it. I said I don't mind talking about it, seeing as I know a lot about it, but I think most people are afraid t...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMay 16, 2023
1 points

With strangers, I do not make eye contact. With people I know, I disclose that my stutter blocks sometime make me grimace and after that, I can try to make eye contact....

Social & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Disclosure & Telling OthersPhysical Tension