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postr/StutterAug 9, 2024
19 points

I stutter at my office job

I stutter at my office job My stutter really affects me at work, I’m an assistant in an office. I can usually avoid stuttering in casual conversation by moving my words around and phrasing things dif...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
2 points

As a child no one cared about my stammer, every one just thought I was very shy and anxious and would eventually grow out of and failed to recognise I needed therapy early in my life. Even though one ...

Parent & CaregiverSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Early Concern & OnsetSchool & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
2 points

I consider myself very lucky. My childhood was very happy. My speech was actually not much of a hindrance to me. I had friends who lived nearby who didn't mind my stutter. School actually helped. I wa...

School & WorkTherapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeSeeking TherapyHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
1 points

No. In junior school I was naturally shy and just had a few very close friends. My stutter didn't fully develop until age 7. Then I began trying to hide it by speaking incredibly fast. So I thus also ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 9, 2024
3 points

I agree with what you said, in school I was not only mocked by students but openly had teachers mimic my stuttering. In middle school people would assume me to be a “quiet kid” which I’m not trying to...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingSchool & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2024
3 points

Yes, the school system only offered speech therapy for the first two grades. I was never offered any additional help even though I clearly had a major speech issue. It really affected my self confid...

School & WorkTherapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeSeeking TherapyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2024
1 points

I can understand about kids as they are dumb and do not know what is stuttering, so they mock. But elders? I my school time, every teacher of mine was always rude to me, infact hate me, because of stu...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingSchool & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2024
0 points

Yes, I also have the same problem. As a severe stutterer, it makes me feel even worse....

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterAug 7, 2024
33 points

Once again my stuttering has driven my mental health to the floor

Once again my stuttering has driven my mental health to the floor I got assigned a three day job in college helping with a fair. In my work group there is a girl, she seemed pretty interested in me, w...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2024
3 points

Not more than 2 weeks ago, i was having coffee with my colleagues. One colleague started talking about dating. So i asked him "so, when are we gonna hear about you finally getting a g-gg-girlfriend?" ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterAug 6, 2024
28 points

Pathetic

Pathetic Can’t say my actual name at times without stuttering, have to resort to my nickname. They both start with the letter M… Why god why ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
5 points

I’m so glad you brought up fanfics and stuff bc that stuff actually makes me cringe so hard like why r u doing that 😭...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterAug 6, 2024
81 points

Why is stuttering so mocked?

Why is stuttering so mocked? No but seriously, it’s so mocked most people makes it a normal thing. Shown in so many TV shows, and in fact how it’s usually portrayed. Like they are dumb, nervous, or as...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
2 points

This is the evil voice in your head telling you that, which self-reinforces and just compounds this distorted self image. Believe me, I've been there too. But what I learned is that anyone who wou...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+2 more
postr/StutterAug 6, 2024
40 points

I just need to vent about it

I just need to vent about it I went to vote today and they always ask you to state your name. My name is what I ALWAYS stutter on, it starts with a B. I couldn’t get past b-b-b-b for so long. It made ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
3 points

When I block I look horrible... I squeeze with my whole face. Im a good looking guy but my blocks ruin my chances of ever finding a new gf or even friends....

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
5 points

Yes, only we know how this has affected our lives in every area. If you aren't a stutterer you can't possibly understand. I think parents minimize this may be out of the desire to help us feel better ...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
3 points

Yes, even with my relatively mild stutter the internalized lifelong stuttering has caused my stigma to remain. Even at At the age of 77f, I'm still embarrassed by not being totally fluent. Its a thing...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
postr/stutteringAug 5, 2024
1 points

Stuttering and professional career

Stuttering and professional career Hello everyone How do you deal with your stuttering in your professionnal life ? Personally, I'll have to go for interviews in a few weeks to find an internship to ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
10 points

Yeah, I feel the same way sometimes. Every time I talk about it with my parents, they tell me it's no big deal and that it's all in my head. But they don't get it. No one does except us people who stu...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more