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commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
1 points

This is what I’ve went through, I feel so dumb now since I never use to pay attention in class, could also be due to my ADHD but others also have ADHD and they’re striving in life and seem intellectua...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
4 points

Everything is a matter of perception. We all say "I didn't get much sleep last night" when we know there are people not sleeping because bombs are falling out of the sky or they live on an empty stoma...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
1 points

What if a person like me goes to enuf therapy in the past!!!! One might not be able to afford another therapy!!!! After a therapy comes an eventual relapse!!!!...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterJul 21, 2024
19 points

Struggling mentally

Struggling mentally I am 27 year old man with a stutter, which I have had since the age of 6. I am ashamed to admit, I am nearly 30 and I still have not come to terms with this speech disorder. I can...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2024
14 points

I'm sorry to hear you've gone through bro. Insane that people still say stuttering isn't a disability. When it's severely affects our life in the worst way possible. Hope everything works out well for...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
5 points

I remember doing in-person interviews before the internet. I knew the exact moment I lost the job because I could read the look on their faces after the first awkward and crushing block. But, it made ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
2 points

I'm in the same condition as you brother, only fifference is that I'm about to turn 25 soon and i am in roughly $7k in debt...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
3 points

If you have solid proof, you can sue. The job market is just awful right now, I’m 1k applications and ~20 interviews deep and I still don’t have a job, but I don’t think it’s the stutter, it’s just em...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
2 points

What I personally expect is more people specifically young people to shut they're mouths & treat stuttering like any other disability. Even tho when in school I did see some kids making fun of kids in...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
1 points

Who's the right people get help from?..I've been to countless speech therapists & it never helped me because my stutter is neurological or maybe trauma based and it has created a seemingly unbreakable...

Therapy & ProfessionalCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyTrauma & PsychologicalStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
6 points

thanks god i don’t post here, i feel you OP i'm in the same position as you right now, i hope we make it out ngl...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
4 points

>Telling OP “hey even if you didn’t have a stutter you wouldn’t even be that great anyways” is so pointless and unproductive. I appreciate your feedback but this is not what I was saying. It is impor...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
0 points

You have no idea about my circumstances. I’ve experienced all those things, but without a cure your only option is to adjust and try, or give up....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
8 points

I know the feeling. People also think I'm slow cause of my stutter. I have no idea why, my speech might be a bit slower at times, but it doesn't mean there's wrong with my head....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
5 points

Suicidal thoughts are all too relatable, I don’t want to continue being laughed at, isolated or rejected but I have to accept the reality. You are correct about the second last sentence if we never st...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
1 points

His post/comment history feels very incel-y to me and what he’s saying is similar to other incel behavior I’ve seen on this subreddit. It’s a very dark rabbit hole to fall into, but feeling so weak an...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
10 points

How?? Just because he doesn’t have a girlfriend? Stuttering can cause extreme depression and in some circumstances it can be an INCREDIBLY debilitating disability. It’s natural to feel like it stole e...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
3 points

A lot of ppl here are totally encumbered their stutter because they *cannot effectively communicate*. In fact, esp if you have a covert stutter based in panic, your listeners will not know what’s goi...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
10 points

No offense, but get out of your fucking pity party and MAKE a life. Maybe you don’t have friends because of your attitude? Or worse, you’re a jerk. You cannot blame everything on your stuttering. You ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Mindset shiftHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
-1 points

I don’t know. Those of us with four working limbs and the ability to type, listen to music, play video games etc. - we’re pretty lucky. It seems like a lot of people here are totally encumbered by the...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life