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commentr/StutterDec 8, 2018
1 points

The first step is talking to people you’re expected to talk to. Asking the cashier how her day is going, saying good afternoon to the mailman, waving to a neighbor and saying hello. It’s nerve wrackin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2018
5 points

My tip is to stop avoided speaking situations. The more you avoid the harder it will get. Accept that you currently have a stuttering problem, be open about it, and start practicing speaking in those ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2018
7 points

This is all very common. Starting sentences is often when the hardest blocks happen. The bad news is there is no fast cure. You should start seeing a speech therapist. They will teach you techniqu...

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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2018
1 points

Yea brings negativity to most of us. I got laughed at all through school, mocked and mimicked, etc...I have more blocks than stammering so I just am there not making any sound at all, my face turning ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2018
7 points

This is just another way to avoid. Avoiding is what leads to hesitation and stuttering. What has helped me the most is giving up crutches and tackling fear head on....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2018
1 points

I stuttered worse when I was a boy before doing that...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2018
1 points

Do you find your speech becomes better if you practice talking to people every day? I stutter severely, but if I have social interactions every single day, then talking becomes really easy after 1 or ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2018
3 points

i think it gets easier the more you do it, but i definitely still stutter and it was difficult at first...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterDec 6, 2018
4 points

A major factor in (largely) overcoming

A major factor in (largely) overcoming Started stuttering in 2nd grade, was pretty bad then but has gotten better every year, to the point where I rarely stutter when talking to people (still suck at ...

Community & SupportAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterDec 5, 2018
13 points

Does any of you stutter more when speaking on foreign language?

Does any of you stutter more when speaking on foreign language? I managed to reduce my stuttering closely to zero when it comes to speaking on my native language but when I speak on English or German ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2018
2 points

this is funny because I'm the opposite, I almost never stutter when I read out loud, only when I'm speaking "freely". and by the way I absolutely switch out synonyms when I'm reading out loud just t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2018
2 points

That's one of the reasons why I never picked a foreign language at college haha, but yeah I guess you're right ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2018
1 points

Luckily looking at the waiter/waitress and using your left hand as a piece of paper and right hand make it look like a pencil, they’ll know you mean can I get the check ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2018
1 points

It’s cause when you’re talking in conversation you have the luxury of switching words around and all that. When you’re reading out loud everyone sees the same words you do if they’re following along. ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2018
2 points

I did exactly that before I started the new year at college and you're right it does help but some people are so inconsiderate and inpatient that it's often not worth trying, especially when people tr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2018
7 points

Have you seen Elon Musk speaking in public? The way he moves his eyes around kind of helps with stuttering too. Lets you focus of the matter you're uttering while giving you huge workspace to play wit...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2018
2 points

That's exactly like mine, I can never ever read from a page out loud or even order at a restaurant but can have a fluent conversation, so strange ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2018
1 points

I think it's a good idea to maybe keep for when you are having a bad day but I think obstacle avoidance is not always a good thing. I stutter much more on the phone then in person, but I find the mor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2018
1 points

Agreed. I think that you are right about self acceptance and its ability to enable a PWS to bounce back into a positive mindset, especially when things are going wrong. But you also said that one of t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2018
3 points

I’m gonna go against the crowd here and say it causes more harm then good. Sure, you’ll be able to get around saying that phrase but in the long run all you’re doing is reinforcing the fear of stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency