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commentr/StutterApr 17, 2024
1 points

My wife tries to tell me that it is, for other reasons that people have listed. However, one thing that I have apprecited it, is it makes me pause and actually think about speaking. I find there are a...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2024
2 points

“I constantly think about what everyone thinks of me.” Just fucking stop it right there. It’s about your mindset. Nobody cares more about your stutter than you. I was a retail manager, had to watch ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2024
1 points

>*"This hypothesis is not proved beyond doubt as far as I understand."* Yes, I agree with everything you said! >*"This is because one of the most frustrating and painful aspects of stuttering, is th...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Neurological & BrainTrauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
postr/StutterApr 17, 2024
11 points

My stutter is a bit different…

My stutter is a bit different… Long post, but I’m wondering if anyone can relate.. I can’t really remember how it was when I was a toddler, but it was definitely noticeable. My school friends remembe...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/stutteringApr 15, 2024
2 points

I feel your pain homie, I use profanity to help me curb the stuttering when allowed obviously I can't do it in a professional setting. It's definitely a confidence killer and what makes it worse is wh...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Strategic Swearing/CursingOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2024
1 points

My name is Jill. I have always struggled with speech/communication. I remember when I was in junior high or high school that when I spoke, I would pause because I couldn't find the word I was looking ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2024
25 points

It's a hard question... One suggestion. Every time you consider your stutter, stop yourself from doing so. We often let our stutter make decisions for us. We allow it to be a huge influence in how w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2024
1 points

> I'll still always have the anxiety about not being able to say your name when asked... IDK how old you are. I had a severe stutter until mid 20s. Did speech therapy throughout my youth with littl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportTherapy & Professional
Overthinking & MonitoringAdvice RequestsSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2024
3 points

I agree with you it's ridiculous, in that, avoidance techniques might become a negative coping mechanism. I think, for some individuals it can still be useful to swap words for example to prevent trau...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2024
3 points

When I don't think about how I talk, I don't stutter and when I do think, I stutter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterApr 11, 2024
5 points

People always think I am mad at them??

People always think I am mad at them?? Any context where I need to explain anything to anyone the other person takes on obvious feelings that I am yelling at them. I need to speak in short clear phras...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Listener ReactionsAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
postr/StutterApr 11, 2024
5 points

Should I avoid eye contact for a split second if it helps?

Should I avoid eye contact for a split second if it helps? Hi! I have been doing speech blocks for half a year now, and I decided to seriously address this habit. From what I read, it is not recommend...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringFluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
1 points

Hi, you’re not too late ( : So glad you wanna get the recommendations I listed. Some of the key points I took from these courses are basically to not hold your expression back when you speak or act...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological Rhythms+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
2 points

I like your writing style, anyway, i’ve been thinking about this all of my life. You know when you speak to someone there’s all this information to be processed - in the form of a person, topic of con...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentCycles & Randomness
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2024
2 points

Sometimes for me the feeling of knowing you're observed used to trigger more of my stuttering, like you were saying. At least when I was younger this had an effect on me for sure. Brains are complic...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterApr 8, 2024
8 points

Venting

Venting I've had a speech impediment for as long as I can remember, starting from childhood. At first, adults around me thought it was cute because I was young. However, as I entered puberty my stutt...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment+2 more
postr/StutterApr 8, 2024
8 points

Stutter, Software Engineering, and System Design Rounds

Stutter, Software Engineering, and System Design Rounds Hey guys. I’m a software engineer that was laid off in February and have been grinding leetcode and system design like normal. I have been d...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2024
3 points

The key to fluency is to not think before speaking. Fluent speakers speak when an idea comes to their mind, not words. In order to do this yourself you need to find a way to keep yourself from plannin...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterApr 7, 2024
12 points

First time posting, happy to find this sub

First time posting, happy to find this sub I am so happy to find this sub and after reading through a few posts and comments, for the first time ever I feel like people understand my struggle with sp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2024
1 points

I think speech therapy can be really helpful if we as PWS are committed to practice every day , an of course it requires some acceptance from our side to talk with techniques . Also it would be helpfu...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Therapy ExperiencesAcceptance & PrideOverthinking & Monitoring