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commentr/StutterJan 21, 2019
3 points

Major upvote for this one. My personal record is about an hour of rerecords to get the message to be fluent. It felt like absolute torture the entire time and I absolutely hated myself for about a day...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2019
2 points

Stay strong! Same thing happened to me. I practiced for an hour in front of a mirror and then I used Mel Robbins 5 Second Rule: 5-4-3-2-1-GO and I called and left a 100% fluent voicemail. You ca...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2019
12 points

I work in sales (and have a stutter) and have to leave voicemails all the time. Here’s a tip: after you finish the voicemail, hit # and then it will give you options, one of them is always to re-recor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJan 21, 2019
13 points

Had trouble leaving a voicemail for a job interview

Had trouble leaving a voicemail for a job interview I had applied for a job a few weeks ago and called the HR department to see if there’s any updates. The lady was on lunch so I had to leave a voicem...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2019
4 points

I don't stutter, but I'm in a longterm relationship with someone who does. I normally wouldn't try to comment on posts like this but I wanted to share what worked for him, since he's not on this subre...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationEmployment & Career+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2019
3 points

The best method of treating stuttering in my experience is extensive socializing. Stuttering, at least for me, is mostly psychological; the longer I keep myself isolated and away from others, the wors...

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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2019
21 points

Obviously there’s no “cure”. I stuttered horribly as a kid and eventually it stopped completely. I never thought about it and after years and years (maybe 5th-11th grade or so) I forgot I ever stutter...

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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2019
6 points

I'm going to come out and say this. I am a recovering alcoholic who stutters that goes to AA - I noticed since I always forced myself to speak at the meetings that after while I noticed no one cared i...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)+3 more
postr/StutterJan 20, 2019
12 points

Any advice from people who have legitimately "cured" their stutter?

Any advice from people who have legitimately "cured" their stutter? I want to cure this thing. I've had it my entire life, I didn't grow out of it like I always really hoped I would, so I want to cure...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2019
1 points

I stutter and I used to twitch stream, it helped me with confidence in fluent speech by making me concentrate more with what I wanted to say. If you're thinking about doing it I say go for it, don't e...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2019
1 points

Yeah I feel the same way. I think it's because when you avoid words it's hard to talk about specific topics and actually connect with someone. That's good you have a presence though and doing better...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterJan 19, 2019
4 points

The Acquaintance Stage (First Post)

The Acquaintance Stage (First Post) Throughout high school I was very anti-social due to my stutter. I would avoid all opportunities to talk, after 4 years at the same school most of my class mates st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2019
3 points

I find that often times, those who stutter use so many techniques to cover it up that they fly under my radar. After a while, though, I usually pick up on it. Just pay closer attention is all I can sa...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJan 19, 2019
5 points

Performing a poem

Performing a poem I have a moderate to severe stutter (depends on the situation) and I want to share some inspirational stuff: my school yearly hosts this little event called "poetry and music" and th...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationPreparation & RehearsalHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2019
1 points

Congrats bro. Even after years of experience in my field, I often tend to run away from interviews. No better way to overcome a problem is to face it head on....

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2019
1 points

I understand. I have a have a mild-severe stutter and sometimes I feel like I am wasting peoples time trying to talk to them. I have two friends that have never made fun of my stutter but that’s about...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of LifeAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2019
2 points

Oh for sure. When it first started it was very bad. Like not being able to get the word out and having to take another breath and try again. It was bad when people always thought I was lying about ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2019
2 points

First off, good on you for even trying this. When I was in high school I avoided speaking in front of people and it wasn't until a year or two out of high school that I opened up and started to talk...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJan 17, 2019
15 points

Big presentation tomorrow.

Big presentation tomorrow. I am a Resident Advisor in college and tomorrow I have to make a 15 minute speech presenting my case for being rehired for next year. I just practiced one full run through ...

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Preparation & RehearsalAnticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2019
2 points

It’s opposite for me. Things that are scripted are more difficult for me and I stutter more when reading off a script. I stutter less when just speaking without any structure because I can substitute ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionExperiential Association