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commentr/StutterApr 18, 2019
3 points

My first name starts with “E” and the only thing that works for self introductions is to say “My name is E.....”. I’d say it works 99.9% of the time. The extra words act like a “runway” for me....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2019
1 points

Agreed. I don't think it is necessarily the letter that is hard. Rather, it's your memories of previous bad experiences involving the letter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Experiential AssociationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2019
3 points

Experiment with adding other sounds before the e. For example say heasy instead of easy. Then work alone to pronounce the h less and less. But as I always say on this sub, e is especially hard for y...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2019
3 points

While ordering i always specify exactly what i want. It gets bad when something unexpected comes up like: "we're out of potatoes can we bring you something else" i then struggle...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2019
3 points

Don't blame god (man in the sky???) for your neurological issue. ACCEPT IT, then move on with your life man. You're world view needs a change and you need to get in touch with a speech therapist and l...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftSeeking Therapy+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2019
9 points

I don't know if this will help, but personally when i changed my view on stuttering it really helped me. I don't look at it like im cursed, its just an extra thing that i have to deal with. Try to acc...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2019
1 points

I lived in Mexico for 2 years (I’m American) and I do stutter in Spanish a lot more than my English. I think it’s because with speaking a second language like Spanish you have to think of the words mo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2019
2 points

I have the same thing! I think it may take a while to develop a stutter in a different language because at first, you don’t think in that language, you’re translating it to your native language in you...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterApr 17, 2019
9 points

Stuttering in different langages

Stuttering in different langages I am french and I've been struggling with my stutter since I am 8. I noticed I wasn't stuttering when speaking another langage (for example in English class). Currentl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2019
2 points

I do the exact same thing knowing that im not the only one that does this makes me happy and no longer scared to talk :]...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2019
2 points

I do the same thing. When I started dating my wife, she even mentioned on the second or third date how she was impressed by my vast vocabulary....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2019
5 points

Share a common interest, rather than starting with your name. Comment on something happening at the party. It might start up a conversation. They’ll ask you for your name later. Hopefully, you are cal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFriendships & BelongingAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2019
3 points

I do this too! What sometimes I might have to do (like with proper nouns) is rephrase the sentence so I’ve got a word I can say before the word I can’t. (eg. instead of orchestra plays their songs I m...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2019
18 points

I pride myself on being able to find almost any synonym to avoid stuttering on certain trouble words (especially words starting with vowels). The worst are proper nouns- there’s no way of getting arou...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
postr/StutterApr 16, 2019
58 points

Are you a walking thesaurus?

Are you a walking thesaurus? When I talk I legitimately think several words ahead, and when I know a word is coming up that doesn't treat me well, I will flip in a synonym. I can usually do this on th...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2019
1 points

I used to be. If I had to do it I'd have to go into a different room and close the door and it would be quite stressful. Now it's still uncomfortable but I can do it. Even in front of other people if ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2019
3 points

Yeah I definitely think having a stutter does make me less social than I would be if I didn't have it, but I am a extrovert by nature so I am lucky in that regard....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Friendships & BelongingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2019
15 points

I'm 15. It fucking sucks. People have said they don't notice it but I see their faces when it looks like I forget my own name. I see how you look when I start to make a joke and it takes 30 seconds to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2019
1 points

Fate has tricked me in more ways than one. You never know. And ahhh that's the worst. I used to order something on the menu that would be easiest to say, rather than what I really wanted to eat....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2019
1 points

Yes. It was always there just not noticable unless ya looked for it. I was well known in the amateur acting for a while and well fate has other plans with me. Oooh yeah i understand. Its horrible an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment