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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2024
0 points

Delusional... ain't nothing cute about the way my face looks when I'm stuttering. I get their trying to be nice but it doesn't work when I know it isn't true. Just ignore it like i do....

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2024
0 points

Maybe if its mild. Not savere blocks and making weird faces mid sentence. That shit can't be cute lmo...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2024
2 points

stuttering is cute or attractive on people who are cute or attractive, stuttering looks pathetic on ugly ones like me....

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2024
16 points

I think the sentiment is genuine. The women who I have dated who have called my stutter cute meant it as a compliment. As if it doesn’t matter that I have it and they like it. It’s comforting. At the ...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2024
8 points

Hugh Grant’s speech style is nice..because he is a good looking guy. If someone else did the sort of speech style..I bet..no one single person will say it’s cute. That being said..I used to get com...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2024
8 points

It’s neither cute nor attractive. If your parents are the ones saying it, then they don’t know how to deal with a stuttering child....

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2024
10 points

I don't care what their true intentions are, it's very infuriating to me. It's not cute, and it's not attractive. Treat me like anyone else and don't mention it, or ask me if I want them to finish m...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2024
16 points

I can see how a very mild stammer (like Hugh Grant's) could be cute. But I don't see how anyone could see full-on blocks with tics as attractive....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2024
3 points

add the “embarassment” and “shame” components to it bc getting leg cramps and sleep paralysis doesn’t exactly feel embarrassing or shameful lol...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 19, 2024
13 points

How do you deal (mentally) with a severe block?

How do you deal (mentally) with a severe block? I mean, when you are in a middle of a sentence and you have literally no idea how to get the next sound out of your mouth. I know, at *some* point, or...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/overcome_stutteringSep 19, 2024
7 points

Life long depression

Life long depression I’m 36 years old and been dealing with my stutter my whole life.. when I was a kid I’d pray that Jesus would take something else!! Just let me be able to talk.. I’ve been dwn rea...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2024
1 points

I never had a teacher do anything helpful so I can't think of anything. Several of them joined in with the other kids at making fun of me. But just don't single them out and always call on them to rea...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterSep 18, 2024
22 points

I’m different

I’m different I live in a different world. And everyone judges me and they want more from me but they don’t understand that I’m trying my hardest. I’m so different. I always will be. And yet, I’m al...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2024
1 points

Most likely identity issues. Same thing is/was happening to me. Ask me anything but: ‘Tell me something about yourself’. Here I’d start to panic internally. Growing up in negligences (NPD home in my c...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2024
0 points

Stuttering, as such, is nothing. It doesn't cause mental and physical pain. BUT... If we're talking about stuttering and its impact on an individual's social life... That's different. Not to mention t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
2 points

Let me go to math class. Speech therapy at my school was in my math time slot for some reason so I rarely got to go, then on the rare occasion I did go the math teacher treated me like actual garbage....

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Seeking TherapyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
5 points

I know, as an adult I am equipped to handle those situations but as a child I was not and it was cruel....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
4 points

My teachers did make me do presentations in front if the class. It was humiliating! I was coming here to tell teachers not to traumatize us like that when we can do the presentation privately!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
14 points

Me too. It’s called occult stuttering. I think it’s almost worse because it surprises unsuspecting people and then you see that look of pity and horror on their faces. I even had one horrible experie...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2024
1 points

Do you have any tips that could help my 14 year old? He’s been in speech therapy in school since 2nd grade and it hasn’t really helped. He’s a freshman now and really wants to become more fluent. It h...

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