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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
1 points

The advice and give to my old self: never focus on your stutter. It sounds absurd. The more I focused on it the worst my stutter was. The second thing since your parent is that when I beat my stutte...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
1 points

This is a journey unique to each person…There is no silver bullet fix that will work for everyone. I am 45 years old and have always stuttered. The best thing I did was to legitimately stop caring wha...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
2 points

when people see something different that takes the pressure off themselves then they focus on it, don't let them make you the center of their mockery, and by that i mean don't pay attention to them, i...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
6 points

I get it OP, it’s frustrating. My heart goes out to you. I’m a few years older than you and out of college now. I still often wonder why most people get to speak with little to no difficulties and eff...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
2 points

1. Keep the self-awareness experiments going. There’s a way through. At some point all this wondering will click and lead you onward in your stuttering journey. 2. I used to obsess as to sometimes I’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2024
6 points

It's because of you. I've noticed when I talk alone without thinking about my stutter I never stutter. Never. But the second I'm thinking about it or recording my voice I stutter. We stutter because o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2024
3 points

I have the same exact type of stuttering. The most disheartening about this for me is that my friends and family blame my confidence for my stuttering, but I really don’t think so because I talk to so...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2024
5 points

This is incorrect. Speaking by yourself is not the same as speaking to others. Speaking with others is much more demanding and requires careful coordination with less margin for error of the s...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2024
3 points

I have the same thing as you. The occasional and very random fluency blocks that result in me either making weird faces to over come them, or using filler words (my go to is “like”) to get over the bl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2024
7 points

There were a couple of moments in my life when my stuttering completely went away for a couple of days, at those days I was the most talkative guy in my group. Even when I am chatting online with some...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Cycles & RandomnessAuthenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2024
12 points

My stutter would have come to an instant halt the moment I saw him get upset. Not sure why but I do not stutter at all when I get mad. And I mean not even in the slightest. He would have had a problem...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2024
4 points

yeah the human brain can be pretty mean to itself but if I’m being honest some of these things you have to figure out on your own, like completely look into the way your thought processes go, your hab...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringMindfulness & BreathingAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
5 points

you’re probably overly interpreting what the people around you are thinking, like subconsciously assuming that the vibe of the conversation is gonna be like this once you start voicing out your opinio...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
3 points

Yeah just made me more focused on my stutter which doesn't help. The less k think about it. The less I stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
8 points

I tried speech therapy in middle school, but didn't really receive any constructive help, so I felt that it was a waste of time and stopped. When I was 20 I tried again, and got a fantastic speech th...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Therapy ExperiencesAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
4 points

at some point i tried doing this, pretending that I have never stuttered and it helped to some extent but i kept getting this voice in my head that says "why are you talking this way? aren't you sup...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
4 points

I’m only in my mid 20s but can relate to this. My stutter used to be a lot worse and is now manageable. And I don’t put as much effort into hiding it anymore because I’m no longer ashamed or afraid of...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
10 points

> **How are you able to have a normal life?** Easily. Pretend your stuttering doesn't exist. You're ready to argue, to which I'll reply that by constantly being in situations that are stressful for ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
16 points

My life is not exactly normal but I enjoy it. My twenties were tricky but I did manage to complete university, get a degree and then a masters a few years after that. None of which helped me get a job...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentTherapy ExperiencesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
3 points

yeah. I just wanna be able to say what I want and tell stories and be charming and funny but instead it’s what it is...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking