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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
3 points

I used to hate it. Sometimes it really annoys me, but I get more annoyed at the people who treat me like dogshit when I stutter. Now I’m definitely more accepting of it and 100% more likely to call ou...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
1 points

I think it's best to ask the person directly what they want you to do. Some people want to be "outed" and some don't. Some people want special treatment, some don't. But the general consensus is to j...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
1 points

Stutterer here. First of all, I think it's really great that you're proactively and thoughtfully asking how you can be a good support to your future employee. As someone who was almost fired for havin...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
5 points

Everyone is different I'd just ask the person Personally I'd like if someone else broke the ice about it for me oh and I absolutely hate it when someone tries to "help me speak" it's one of...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
8 points

so there are 3 things really here. 1. the first is how you personally should react when the person stutters. I would say, if its mild- moderate- as in its noticeable but does not lead to a break down...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
1 points

Hi, I was wondering what kind, of course, you went through. I would love to hear more about it. I feel like every time someone finds a way to increase fluency our brains become used to it and ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
14 points

Mild Stutterer here - I would leave it up to person to tell them. You mentioned that you spoke with him for an hour about a project and he didn't stutter until the very end. I doubt people will be tal...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
1 points

I'm definitely the "surprise" stutter. I mean is there nothing that could be done to avoid it completely ? I don't except it to happen everytime so I tend to talk fast naturally (as fast as normal peo...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2019
1 points

in my thinking there are 3 types of stutters. 1. Theres the anticipatory stutter. You know its coming, you want to avoid it but you cant for whatever reason (your name), you've stuttered here a 100 ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionCycles & Randomness
postr/StutterSep 25, 2019
6 points

ADVICE ON PRACTICING SPEECH.

ADVICE ON PRACTICING SPEECH. Hey everyone, this is what I noticed help me with my speech today and I know for sure it can help you as well. I noticed that when I don't avoid words I can't pronounce ea...

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Fluency TechniquesPhysical TensionAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2019
1 points

I switched to kitchen after my first year. Became such a valuable member of the kitchen team that I rarely went up front anymore. And even when I did, no drive thru...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2019
2 points

Im pretty fluent at this point in my life, but that is still one of my worst fears. I generally don’t have a problem informally but having to go around a room where everyone introduces themselves is q...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2019
1 points

Ughh, me too. I managed to stay in the grill for over a year but they eventually made me start working up front. There were days I did ok, but others were a disaster....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2019
2 points

But be careful, i use the 'humm' and i found myself in a cycle with it, like the only thing it cames out of my mouth is 'humm'....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2019
-3 points

Use a lot of uhh and umm, it'll help you in the long run. Also, take long pauses so you don't have to talk much...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2019
-10 points

Personally I would suggest stop learning spanish, it is not worth the risk of your stutter getting worse It is quite common for people to stutter much worse in their second language...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
postr/StutterSep 25, 2019
10 points

Stuttering in foreign language help?

Stuttering in foreign language help? I am a native English speaker, and I got rid of my English stutter a while ago, probably 8th grade. It was a problem where I would make clicky sounds with my tongu...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Repetitions & ProlongationsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
3 points

I'm Much better face to face as well but I try to make myself use the drive through occasionally so a dislike doesn't become a dread...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
1 points

My younger brother has this. He has a bit of stammer.(barely noticeable and alot less than me). But he just prolongs sentences a lot. Seems like he doesn't find words to complete sentences. He says "u...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Repetitions & ProlongationsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
3 points

That means that u become nervous speaking face to face, I suggest speaking in mirror or speaking with your close friend a lot or a relative and reading loud with them listening also helps...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & RehearsalMindfulness & Breathing