Everyone is different I'd just ask the person Personally I'd like if someone else broke the ice about it for me oh and I absolutely hate it when someone tries to "help me speak" it's one of my top 3 pet peeves I'd prefer someone just pretend that I'm not stuttering and not draw any attention to it it's one of the few topics that I also dont joke about and dont take jokes about it lightly because I've been bullied so much for it that I will instantly take it negatively