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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
10 points

No. Plenty of people will trade you their disabilities. Life isn’t fair. You get dealt cards and you play your hand. What does being miserable accomplish. No body likes being around a negative person...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
0 points

I feel the same. Also you have a few English errors. I'm a native speaker and my grammar sucks cuz I don't know how to use punctuation lol. But you said " I don't have any good advice to stutters." It...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyLoneliness & IsolationFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
1 points

Wow, that’s amazing. Does he let it bother him? I def will!!! I’ll probably hit you up once I’m done cleaning, this has been something that has been ruminating in my mind so it would def be nice to ta...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
5 points

My heart breaks for you, because I totally understand that feeling, as I’m in that right now. I am so sorry and I completely empathize with you. It’s fucking hard! And there’s nothing like being embar...

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Harmful Med OutcomesFrustration & AngerAdvice Requests
postr/StutterJul 10, 2023
20 points

at work right now and struggling so much

at work right now and struggling so much just ranting tbh having such a bad day with my stutter today. part of my job is answering the phone and the constant struggling on the phone is making me exha...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Energy & Biological RhythmsFrustration & AngerBlocks & Stoppages+1 more
postr/StutterJul 9, 2023
3 points

Mentality to improve?

Mentality to improve? I want to get better and stop letting it control me, but my heart isn't really in it. Like how am I suppose to defeat it when I'm still scared shitless of it. People say that you...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
2 points

That shit is dumb bro. I've been trying for years to overcome this stupid disability but it's only getting worse. I'm sorry man but it's over for some of us....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
5 points

Thank you. I've been trying to act as if the stutter doesn't occur at all because I don't want kiddo to be self conscious and turn this into an anxiety loop, but I'm sure that my facial expressions ha...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 8, 2023
12 points

Feeling overwhelmed/vent post

Feeling overwhelmed/vent post TW (suicide): hey all, hope you are all doing well. I don’t want to spread any negativity, but I have no other place to vent. For some reason, over the last couple of d...

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Suicidal Ideation & High DistressLoneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
2 points

Totally opposite for me, I'm 60 and still totally embarrassed about my stammer, I'm always full of dread and anxiety, which is why I guess as I've got older if anything it's got worse.. as you say...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & AngerCycles & Randomness+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
3 points

I feel your pain and anger, I'm 60 and as you say this hatred of my stammer has been with me through my life, and yes it's totally held me back, but there is hope and life of some sorts, even if ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
1 points

Knew my parents but never really talked to em much. But my eldest sister would always acuse me of faking my stutter for attention, and my siblings telling me to calm down...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
3 points

Maybe a little when I was younger, but not anymore cause no real point in hate/resentment. Wish I could talk fluently, still struggle to cope with it. But have no choice but to keep pushing on even if...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 5, 2023
41 points

Does anyone sometimes resent that non-stutterers take their fluent speech for granted and have no idea how lucky they are.

Does anyone sometimes resent that non-stutterers take their fluent speech for granted and have no idea how lucky they are. All my life I've been tormented by severe stuttering, and when I see others o...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
2 points

My parents have never ever mocked me. They actually used to get more mad than I was when I got stuck bad because they could tell how frustrated I was and they couldn't help me. I feel extremely bad f...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
2 points

I grew up as an angry kid and now I'm just an angry adult. I had thoughts that perhaps my emotions are related to my upbringing, but reading your comment I think I can be more confident in that corre...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerTrauma & Psychological
postr/StutterJul 4, 2023
19 points

Stuttering upsets me more than it probably upsets other people. It makes me want to avoid socializing, got any tips?

Stuttering upsets me more than it probably upsets other people. It makes me want to avoid socializing, got any tips? I just absolutely HATE that I can't say what I want to others and I feel like half ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
1 points

Yes, I always stuttered more around my parents. I attributed it to my feeling betrayed by them for never helping me and almost punishing me for being an embarrassment....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
2 points

Yes, my parents just did nothing to help me, no speech therapy, etc but treated me terribly as if my not being perfect anymore was an affront to them. I was abused, and marginalized and I believed a f...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
3 points

I can barely speak in front of my father. We barely talked during my childhood and he was very strict and "heavy" man. I am adopted and I think he never accepted me entirly, so I was always afraid to ...

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Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+2 more