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postr/StutterDec 24, 2019
27 points

When your stutter forces you to reject a brilliant Christmas gift...

When your stutter forces you to reject a brilliant Christmas gift... Hey everyone, I'm sorry that my first post is a vent but I just have to get it off me. Oh and English isn't my first language, so p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2019
2 points

Oh my gosh I am guilty of this-- I have very severe ADHD and I have to actively stop myself from "helping" with the word. Now that my stutter is so bad I can see the other side of the road, and I real...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionListener ReactionsOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2019
2 points

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it. I've been trying so hard to reinvent myself and get out of my shell because my future relies on me being outgoing and charismatic, I can't be that if I harbo...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2019
6 points

Sometimes I like when someone finishes my sentence off. It really does remove the hassle of blocking even more and embarrassing myself....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionListener Reactions
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2019
5 points

Same here man :( but I'm practicing deep breathing exercise, I usually block at the start of a conversation so I try to mumble songs before I start my sentence, it helps in diverting my mind....

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Mindfulness & BreathingAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 24, 2019
20 points

I hate it when i block and then people try to guess the word that i wanted to say! And worst thing is they usually get it wrong and I'd have to repeat myself. Like damn just wait a lil bit i got i don...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsParent & Caregiver
Avoidance & SubstitutionListener ReactionsOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterDec 22, 2019
30 points

Just a little support is all it takes

Just a little support is all it takes I havent met anyone with a stutter and im so grateful that this thread exists I am 17yo male with not so bad stutter, i block on maybe half my words and sometimes...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterDec 22, 2019
6 points

I'm lost.

I'm lost. Hey guys, I've got a question for you, I'm 17 and the next year i'll be in university in a whole different country. And the entire project relies on me working 20 hours a week to pay for my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2019
1 points

It’s crazy how we can anticipate stutters coming a few words ahead. I’ve gotten good at changing words or my sentence structure on the fly. I also talk when I’m by myself. I’ll rehearse conversations...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterDec 22, 2019
2 points

Thanks for sharing. I TOTALLY do the same thing when I feel a block coming. I pretend to forget the word, or I’ll change the word on the fly. It usually works decently. I don’t do it because I’m embar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2019
3 points

Thanks for sharing. It sounds like our stuttering is pretty similar. Generally mild but the flare ups can be bad. I know when I’m nervous or on the spot mine gets worse. I’m sick of settling for copin...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques+1 more
postr/StutterDec 21, 2019
32 points

Lifelong stutterer, haven't really tried to address it for 20 years. I'm thinking about trying again

Lifelong stutterer, haven't really tried to address it for 20 years. I'm thinking about trying again This will be a long post so thanks for bearing with me. I haven't really talked to anyone about thi...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2019
1 points

Did you mean midwife or? Also, I really understand where you are coming from. I have had instances under extreme pressure that I speak fine abruptly....

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2019
9 points

>Yes I do occasionally stutter and even I can spot biden's bullshit as he's playing the victim... He could have easily said "I met a kid with a strong stutter who said.." but he decided to make a f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2019
-2 points

Yes I do occasionally stutter and even I can spot biden's bullshit as he's playing the victim... He could have easily said "I met a kid with a strong stutter who said.." but he decided to make a fool ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2019
3 points

My wife usually orders but if I'm solo I've yoga strategy to make it easier. I just wrote it in another post too but If I'm starting to talk with a person at work or ordering food or anything. I start...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2019
1 points

Mate I have a really good strategy. I have a very well rehearsed "high how are you?" if you you struggle with H sounds maybe find a different greeting that's easy to say for you. If I'm starting to t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2019
6 points

This is why in new classes I always sit in the back near the door. I've bailed on several occasions....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2019
1 points

I try to take time but people keep interrupting me or rushing me. It gets me pretty pissed. Somehow I’ve managed to make myself more fluent in spite but if I could take some time to compose myself It ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical Tension
postr/StutterDec 20, 2019
27 points

Rejected for having a stutter - right or wrong?

Rejected for having a stutter - right or wrong? I am on my way back home as I type this out. I’ve just wasted an hour travelling to an interview that was listed as a ‘technical analyst’ role where the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more