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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
-5 points

Honestly, dating posts are by far no where near the majority of posts on this sub. The large majority of posts are gender agnostic. It looks like you're honing in on the dating posts specifically beca...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
22 points

I am a woman who stutters. I'm too old for my post to really be relevant to many young female PWS, but many of us have gotten lucky. I stuttered from the age of 5. My parents did nothing to help me. N...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
36 points

33F, single, moderate to sometimes severe stutter. Dating is hard for non-stutterers and seems almost impossible for us. The general consensus I’ve gotten from this sub regarding dating, from men to m...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
53 points

Stutterer 37F here and I've only every encountered one other woman stutterer in my life. Married for 8 years, but I can recall my stuttering hindering my confidence when dating. Especially since one...

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commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
11 points

I’m a cisgendered woman who stutters, and I’ve noticed the same thing about this sub. I will say that dating apps generally seem to have more men on them than women, so it seems like the odds for men ...

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postr/StutterMar 4, 2024
90 points

Anyone else feel like this sub excludes women?

Anyone else feel like this sub excludes women? I'm a woman who stutters and I struggle a lot with embarrassment and self esteem because of it. I would like to hear more from other women who share my s...

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commentr/StutterMar 2, 2024
1 points

I absolutely hate texting/email. You can't get a read on a vibe with a person that way. I understand it's convenience though. With my friends i usually just text, but if I'm engaging with a woman I us...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2024
4 points

This is awesome to see, but the relationship status chart makes me sad. Almost 2/3rds of us are single. Curious if that’s by choice or not. In my experiences, dating and social interactions are so muc...

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commentr/StutterMar 1, 2024
2 points

Confidence is the biggest thing. If a girl likes you, I promise you she doesn't care about your stutter. My fiance told me once "I've waited my whole life for you. I can be patient". I haven't shut up...

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commentr/StutterFeb 29, 2024
3 points

For now he seems like a good guy, but you need to get to know him better and analyze whether you like his attitudes, sometimes getting into a serious relationship with a person who gives bad signs can...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2024
1 points

Everyone is lovable. I stutter and am happily married. Our stutter makes us unique. Build up the confidence!...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2024
-2 points

Men who stutter appear more submissive to me. I suddenly want to care for them, love them, have sex with them.. . I am a doctor and that may be one of the reasons why I like stuttering men...

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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2024
1 points

Well good luck but don't sell yourself short. The guy i love who stutters didn't even love me one bit. İ was hanging around here to learn more and support him better. İn short there's no reason to ge...

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2024
1 points

That’s cool man I’m 53 and I’ve had plenty of girlfriends in my time, and all of them have been very affectionate towards my stuttering....

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commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2024
2 points

Bro you’re you’re spot on with literally everything you said. That’s what has ruined my life up till now.. my inability to deliver my words in a way that’s socially attractive. With my stutter most ti...

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postr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
12 points

Is having a relationship difficult with a stutter?

Is having a relationship difficult with a stutter? Do you guys think having a relationship such as with your gf or wife is difficult when you have a stutter? Especially communicating ? Or would girls ...

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postr/StutterFeb 26, 2024
55 points

Can you really be lovable if you stutter?

Can you really be lovable if you stutter? This question is mostly directed to men. From what I know a huge part of what people fall in love with comes from what the person says and how he says it. You...

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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2024
1 points

sounds like bro is interested in you, I don’t know to what degree but I’d take it as a opportunity to learn about him too, most people respond well when they’re seen so make him feel seen and hopefull...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2024
2 points

My father never physically hurt me but would mock me and say things like "did I stutter" etc. I hope you're in a better environment friend. Your crush will understand if they are right for you as wel...

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commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2024
4 points

On a first date, we were sitting on a park bench and didn't speak for a couple minutes. She turned to me and asked "Are you always like this?". It bothered me but I pushed through. Now we've been marr...

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