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commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2019
-1 points

Sometimes when i am very energetic and confident i dont block .Women usualy want to be dominated in the conversation , so stuttering is immediate failure . Now i dont talk from experience but thats th...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2019
1 points

Please can you help me? I can't talk to people I keep getting blocks and it's discouraging me from even speaking...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2019
2 points

They might have heard me stutter once or twice but I hardly talk at all because of it..People are fucking judgmental and are not good at hiding it at all.. sometimes I can laugh my stutter off but whe...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2019
9 points

Don’t get too upset, non stutterers find it hard to talk to hot girls too. ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 2, 2019
21 points

27m Can't talk to attractive females

27m Can't talk to attractive females I work with a few and every time I think of something to say I get a block I can't get over so I end up just not saying anything to them.. I get a weird feeling in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2019
2 points

Worst: When I was 7, my teacher asked me to read some text and of course I was stuttering so much and all my classmates were laughing at me and the teacher was laughing too. I think my experiences fro...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2019
5 points

Well, hello there, 22 year old Italian stutterer here too. Just wanted to say hi, I'll also have to discuss my thesis in a couple weeks. Let's hope for the best, I have really mixed feelings about h...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 1, 2019
10 points

Relationships (Girlfriend , wife etc)

Relationships (Girlfriend , wife etc) How do you guys do it. How do you guys approach women ? How do they respond once they catch you off guard being a stuttering mess ? How do we initiate the thing ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2019
2 points

Yes, this used to happen constantly to me. I'd get all worked up - It got better for me as I got into my late 20s and early 30s - I think because I became less focused on myself/ on the stutter and ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2019
2 points

Flirting can be difficult because of nerves, but if they initiate it first, there's nothing to worry about and they should understand that it might be difficult for you, and if they do judge you when ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2019
2 points

Yes, premeditating for me causes a bunch of anxiety and stress to build up. I’m better off if I just don’t even think about it and just say it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 30, 2019
22 points

Thinking about stuttering before speaking, causing you to stutter worse?

Thinking about stuttering before speaking, causing you to stutter worse? Hi everyone first post here, I have a mild stutter but i find when i have to repeat myself or when its my turn to say somethin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2019
14 points

Dating is the one thing I haven’t figured out as a stutterer. I’m not sure if it’s me or my stutter but I’ve never really had the confidence to flirt. ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 30, 2019
2 points

Phone Calls (Relatives, Interviews, Booking Appointments, etc.). How can I make them better?

Phone Calls (Relatives, Interviews, Booking Appointments, etc.). How can I make them better? This is something I've been having a really hard time with lately and would appreciate some advice on. &am...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterJan 30, 2019
21 points

DAE feel like their stutter is holding them back from forming social relationships?

DAE feel like their stutter is holding them back from forming social relationships? My girlfriend is kinda upset that I don't talk to her family as much as I maybe could, I'm not sure if it's down to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance+1 more
postr/StutterJan 28, 2019
23 points

Had a bad stutter day and I can’t cheer myself up

Had a bad stutter day and I can’t cheer myself up Ugh yeah that’s all i gotta say. It was hard to call people today. I don’t know why i am stuttering more. I had to make an appointment via calling and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2019
0 points

You may think that, and that’s great, but you can’t predict how something like this will affect other people. What about the extremely insecure/shy 10 yo girl who JUST got a stutter and is incredibly ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJan 28, 2019
7 points

Acknowledging my stutter

Acknowledging my stutter I’ve stuttered probably my whole life. My family doesn’t really acknowledge it or have talked to me about it. I think they don’t want to embarrass me but really all it’s done ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2019
2 points

i see a speech therapist and my speech gets better but when school reopens from some vacation my speech goes down the toilet .It's like my stammer is caused due to low confidence ,fear of stammering o...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJan 28, 2019
6 points

how do i build confidence

how do i build confidence i do not stutter when i'm alone but when i speak with someone else i stutter heavy. I do not have the confidence to speak with other people.Due to low confidence or something...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception