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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2020
1 points

for me if I anticipate I'm going to stutter, I don't. because I can use these methods to make sure I don't. I can be exceedingly fluent under pressure when I am being deliberate. The ones I have tr...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2020
2 points

My biggest problem isn't stuttering itself, but not being able to have long interesting conversation, when I'm just a bit under pressure my head suddenly is empty and don't know what to say...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2020
2 points

Reciprocity is key. First introduce a topic, talk about your own experience or opinion on that topic and then ask about her opinion. She'll have to do the same of course, but don't worry. If you like ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2020
2 points

Sometimes I get stuck while trying to order something. I'm 21, so I get no nice treatment and even before, I've never experienced something like that. The general reaction I get is an awkward stare, b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2020
2 points

Yeah I told her straight away and she's totally fine with that, the problem is not that I'm worrying about my stutter, it's more that I often can't keep a conversation with people, don't know what to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2020
4 points

Off the top of my head: ask lots of questions, be open and casual about your stutter (especially if it’s a particularly disfluent night for you), smile, laugh, talk about your passions (but don’t ramb...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2020
1 points

When ever i have a bad stutter it always help to spend a day or more just talking to people. It can be your little sister or your parents....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2020
2 points

It didnt help me last semester but the only tving that sermd to help with my stutter is to talk to poeple more....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2020
2 points

If you are asked to read out loud, I would try to focus on keeping a smooth flow of air and really focus on the document. Like try to pretend your reading to yourself, a dog, a kid - many stutterers d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityStress & Fight/Flight+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2020
3 points

Just stutter through it. I did the same and professors and student usually have your back....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2020
2 points

A lot, I find that there are some things I can say normaly, and when I say those people think that I fake it other times....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2020
1 points

Usualy yes. I find most people randomly imitate it because they don't know that I'm not doing it on purporse...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2020
3 points

Want to hear a funny one? I'm a dog groomer. It's known and accepted(maybe reluctantly) that I cannot answer the phones. I don't think my coworkers quite get it but I'm trying to at least call the ow...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2020
1 points

I just said it wasn't a guaranteed thing on any given sound. At which point he'd kinds go "hmm" and go back to his work. Which was fine by me lol....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2020
1 points

I guess, it is the lack of self confidence about expressing yourself. I reinforced this feeling to convince my subconscious about speaking. " I can express myself without hesitation clearly, calmly...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2020
1 points

If I’m initiating the call, I make sure I know what I am going to say then start like a tv announcer... “hello, this is howtobegoodagain, might I please speak with....”. I don’t allow panic and anxiet...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionMedication Inquiries
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2020
1 points

> Careful that you don't buy into mainstream tropes too much in your self-understanding. Stuff like "inherent", "genetics", "extrovert", "introvert" and "born that way" is not really helpful. It of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 6, 2020
3 points

Tips and advice

Tips and advice So I’m curious as to what you all here think. I’m a 20 year old male college student who works at a grocery store. My manager recently asked me if I would like to be promoted to workin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionEnergy & Biological RhythmsAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2020
2 points

In class we had to present ourselves with one lie in it. So others need to listen closely. I said my name and that i stutter. Some other facts and they all had to guess. Someone said that the lie was...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2020
5 points

Teachers always seemed to think I was faking it especially when it came time to present a project or read out loud during class I'd remain quite till id get sent to the principal where I'd explain m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStigma & Bullying