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commentr/StutterApr 23, 2020
3 points

A good approach is to have a meeting with: your parents, your teachers & the speech therapist so that everyone knows what is going on. Make a plan and stick to it. Most importantly, focus on ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2020
3 points

My biggest enemy was a phone, when I need to call somethere I make excuses, I give phone to friends family members, but once I says it's enough, and I starting calling by my self. 3 times I call and w...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterApr 23, 2020
16 points

Extroverted introvert who stutters

Extroverted introvert who stutters Hello. I was little when it started, as i remember i saw a bad dream or something and i just started stuttering. Then around at the age of 8 even though i stuttere...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2020
10 points

I wish powering through worked for me, since it's nice to not care sometimes. Unfortunately, I just end up making car sounds until I run out of breath, the few times I've tried....

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2020
18 points

I've lost hope for a cure. Now I just break through the blocks with blunt force every time they pop up. No more avoidance tactics, no word substitution, no staying silent, no avoiding eye contact or v...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2020
2 points

1st sound/syllable is most common. It is also portrayed the most in acting. However, people may stretch sounds, break voice mid-word, totally block (tight larynx and no sound), and the somewhat rare...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesRepetitions & ProlongationsAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterApr 21, 2020
2 points

Previous stutterer replaced it with poor speech habits

Previous stutterer replaced it with poor speech habits I'm needing help here. As I child I had a horrible stutter, my brain was working much faster than I was able to speak. I never went to speech the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2020
4 points

The ones that work for me are putting on your ‘phone voice’ and slowing down how fast you go through a sentence! One that works for me is changing my accent to something different but I don’t think t...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2020
3 points

There's one time where the teacher asked a question I knew the answer to, but knowing that I stutter, I didn't raise my hand. It benefits me because the answer I had was wrong in the first place. Oth...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2020
1 points

I cannot believe grown ass adults are still mocking stutterers. This used to happen when I was in elementary school, are you telling me it still happens in adulthood? My advice is, just ignore them? ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
5 points

One time a couple of months ago when I was in school, I walked into class and I spoke to my friend and my stutter broke through and I heard someone laugh. I turn around to see the typical sports kid w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterApr 20, 2020
3 points

My name stops me from dating

My name stops me from dating Hi all, I’m mainly here to vent about how little I date just because I’m worried about saying my name. This doesn’t affect my work life... I talk all day and have to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
2 points

It has affected my dating life in a way that I was scared to talk to girls because of fear of being judged but I've learned to take control I make it no secret that I stutter when I talk to girls I ev...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideDating & Romance
postr/StutterApr 20, 2020
9 points

Just realized I still stutter! It has returned..

Just realized I still stutter! It has returned.. So I have been stuttering all my life but it has gradually been less as I have gotten older and more consciously aware. I can’t remember the last time ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
1 points

I feel you dude. Not sure how old you are, but I'm 29 and whilst my stutter isn't terrible, when I hit a block on something like my surname or a food order it's painful. But then a few years ago I pos...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2020
2 points

What i always do when i meet someone i am interested in, i tell them i stutter and what it is. And also that they should keep eye contact and wait when i am stuttering. All my friends barely notice it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2020
2 points

Honesty haven't mentioned to people as much as I should.. I've hated it for so long that in my head it's this big ugly thing that I'd rather not bring up I even get anxious just thinking about telling...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2020
2 points

I’m almost 30, and I’ve accepted my stutter (though it’s not like I had a choice). I have a particularly severe stutter that’s impossible to hide (takes me like a minute to say 2-4 words) and speech t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2020
1 points

I know how you feel, but how often have you just admitted to others that you have a stutter when you're speaking ad get stuck on a word? In my experience people find the honestly endearing more than ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2020
18 points

I had to stop trying to mask it. The techniques I was using sounded worse than the stutter. I'm almost 40 and have been stuttering my whole life. I have a family with kids. My daughters have slight sp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride