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commentr/StutterApr 5, 2023
8 points

Thats everyday for me stuttering has made my life hell...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2023
8 points

I double it. At the university I have never participated in discussions and public speaking at seminars, having low grades and self-esteem, but good at writing and memorization. Whatever, I graduated ...

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commentr/StutterMar 25, 2023
3 points

Glad to see that Stutter helps your anxiety about your stuttering. For me I stream as I've found that it helps me not stutter as much. Since I'll spend hours streaming and talking to chat. It helps ...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
5 points

Bro I can understand what pain you are going through, not being fluent in speaking is like being in the middle of an ocean without knowing how to swim, if you want to talk about anything dm...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyQuality of Life
postr/StutterMar 18, 2023
1 points

should we compare ourselves with people who speak fluently, compare in terms of their financial and social situation with friends and many other things?

should we compare ourselves with people who speak fluently, compare in terms of their financial and social situation with friends and many other things? [deleted]...

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commentr/StutterMar 15, 2023
1 points

I honestly find it hard to express myself to others because I literally stutter. So I tend to suppress my feelings all the time and tbh, I’ve been noticing a increase in my stuttering these days due t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterMar 14, 2023
14 points

sometimes i just wanna be deaf whenever i’m talking…

sometimes i just wanna be deaf whenever i’m talking… because whenever i have my airpods on with noise cancellation, i know that i can’t hear other people or any type of noise that clearly, so i don’t ...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2023
1 points

It's annoying that it takes time to make our point, using exactly the words we would really like to use. But regardless of people's reactions to our stutter, the reality is it comes off as endearing a...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2023
1 points

It's annoying that it takes time to make our point, using exactly the words we would really like to use. But regardless of people's reactions to our stutter, the reality is it comes off as endearing a...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2023
1 points

Indeed, what's the point of having a voice if you can't use it as you want to.. I'm like you, phone calls are a big no no! You would think not been face to face would make it easier, just like tal...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterMar 10, 2023
21 points

When all else fails

When all else fails I just had a really challenging work call with lots of stuttering. I am trying my best to not go down the typical self-loathing and shame spiral. I just want to go for a hike, or b...

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Sadness & HopelessnessQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2023
1 points

That is so true. Self-acceptance is the first step to reducing social anxiety. If I‘d waited to have a life until I finally became fluent at 70, I’d have missed out on my entire education, marriage, ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
postr/StutterMar 10, 2023
14 points

I JUST WANT TO BE ABLE TO SAY WHAT I WANT TO SAY

I JUST WANT TO BE ABLE TO SAY WHAT I WANT TO SAY It's so goddamn frustrating. It's 100% worse for me on the phone and I hate that sometimes the person is like oh is there something wrong with our line...

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Frustration & AngerQuality of Life
postr/StutterMar 10, 2023
52 points

It's not that I care what other people think but the problem is that I can't say what I'm trying to say and that is what makes me miserable

It's not that I care what other people think but the problem is that I can't say what I'm trying to say and that is what makes me miserable ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
3 points

Kinda related, kinda not. Iv always had a stutter. But iv been around a lot of Spanish speaking people lately and don't speak Spanish. But I'll do Google translate with them and hand the phone back an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterMar 9, 2023
6 points

Using phone instead of voice

Using phone instead of voice there are many cases when I have to arrange my things in institutions in the city and yesterday I was in the bank in connection with a bank card and I couldn’t speak, in m...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Quality of LifeHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2023
10 points

I would definitely be a more outgoing and sociable person. I will consider a lot of other careers. I will have more friends. I won't have constant anxiety when I need to talk. The depression and sad t...

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postr/StutterMar 9, 2023
3 points

What's the point of talking

What's the point of talking Alright. yall say that people dont care, but my question is that, have you ever held a verbal conversation for over a hour with a severe stutter? Do you think its reasonab...

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postr/StutterMar 8, 2023
18 points

biggest problem about stuttering

biggest problem about stuttering I've noticed that the stutter itself is obviously very annoying and hard to deal with, but it's not my biggest problem with it. The deal really is that you cannot ful...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Quality of LifeAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMar 6, 2023
7 points

Stuttering getting worse

Stuttering getting worse So; I’ve had a stutter for as long as I can remember. I went to speech therapy for a bit as a kid but it never worked out. High school from what I can remember was fine, but n...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & Anger+1 more