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postr/StutterNov 7, 2024
1 points

What is your motivation for job interviews? ( my life story)

What is your motivation for job interviews? ( my life story) I 23M live in Pakistan , I know most of you are westerners so I know different living conditions but we stutter the same :) So I picked ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterNov 6, 2024
20 points

Job Rejection

Job Rejection Got rejected to a job (100%) over bad communication skills. Don’t know what to do besides having emotional breakdowns over it coz I’m genuinely exhausted from the job search process. ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterNov 6, 2024
26 points

I hate my stutter.

I hate my stutter. Today me and my friends played a game where we named anime one by one in a circle and the person that can’t say an anime loses. I tried so hard to say the names but my stutter jus...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
1 points

I lurk here often and this one got me teary eyed. Since 2020 my childhood stutter came back like it was part 2 of the movie IT. I've been having blocks with this same issue. My name or any kind of per...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2024
1 points

I’m 24M, and let’s just say I’m not hard on the eyes.  Girls always hit me up with compliments, but it’s all kinda moot.  I can’t even talk to a girl I’m into on the street, because I know I’m gonna s...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
2 points

People who are deaf don't opine the way I see some people here doing. :-( Just embrace your inner Gen-X, shrug, say I don't care, and just carry on. We've all got burdens to bear....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
5 points

When I tell my parents I can’t do certain careers with my stuttering and lisp problem they seem to brush it off like it’s no big deal . I hate that I was born I hate having to work I hate life I hate ...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
2 points

I feel this so much each day, some days more than others, but there is always an underlying sense of pain and sadness, even on the happiest of days. I have been able to stop projecting what my life ...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2024
14 points

I feel the same. I don't know how I'm expected to live without a voice, a social and love life. I'm only here for my mom and brother....

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
6 points

Glad I'm not alone i did the same thing just 1month back now sitting in home don't know what do next, becoming used furniture at home...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2024
3 points

You'll live 80 somewhat years of your life afraid to speak?? Let them sink in, go in the woods and howl if you have to but don't deny yourself your speech, you're stammering because you're human....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2024
1 points

Nah my boyfriend of close to a decade also comes to me to vent whenever he needs or wants to, it’s because we have trust and clear communication and aren’t judgmental to each other. He enhances my lif...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 31, 2024
4 points

Why can't i get rid of my stutter and the fear of talking to people?

Why can't i get rid of my stutter and the fear of talking to people? I have stutter when i was child , it was developmental stuttering and i got over it quickly and didn't payed attention much to it.T...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2024
15 points

I think the thing to keep in mind is that every person is different, everyone for the most part stutters differently (although there are many commonalities) and therefore what works to manage stutteri...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingSeverity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2024
2 points

I imagine almost everyday but it's not happening... and I have to hard accept it and work on it every day when others can just talk without stammering and can walk normaly when others are in wheelchai...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2024
1 points

If that's your belief, then that's the paradigm you choose to exist in. Learning a trade or skillset and selling it is an opportunity available everywhere for everyone. Even in prison. Trading time fo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2024
1 points

Dang this guy just discovered that the economy is imaginary and doesn’t actually matter. I don’t really know anything about India but this is way too simple a take, try telling someone in Haiti or Gaz...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2024
2 points

I manage that with my family. Remember its not worth hurting your family in the process. The stutter gets easier with experience, im 32 and have cintrol but theres tikes when im working and have to ta...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2024
10 points

I don’t have a severe stutter but enough to have those kind of thoughts. How I deal with it?? I’m not really sure. As someone with autism and a stutter, I often get suicidal thoughts and fantasise a...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2024
2 points

I missed on so much in my teen years because I was too afraid to be heard. And I think the isolation made me a prime target to fall into the soon to be druggy dropout kids. Stuttering wasn't the roo...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Loneliness & IsolationHelplessness & AgencyTrauma & Psychological