Nah my boyfriend of close to a decade also comes to me to vent whenever he needs or wants to, it’s because we have trust and clear communication and aren’t judgmental to each other. He enhances my life and I’m thankful for him being there to support me through everything as I do to him, but that doesn’t mean I NEED him for all of my emotional regulation. That’s just unhealthy. And requires therapy and an honest look at yourself.