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postr/StutterAug 27, 2019
3 points

I’m new here

I’m new here I’m twenty three, and I am an actor/singer. I graduated with a degree in Theatre and have found success on stage without much of much stutter getting in the way. But I’m scared. I still ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterAug 27, 2019
1 points

Question.

Question. When I am speaking alone I dont stutter. But sometimes I do speaking with other people. Is it psychological? I have stutter, but is very light, but I often get anxious before talking. And th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2019
6 points

My stuttering comes and goes in waves as well. Sometimes it's quite manageable, other times it's a serious disability. Most colleges offer free therapy for their students. I took advantage of this, ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationSadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterAug 27, 2019
6 points

Studying medical school with a stutter

Studying medical school with a stutter Hi. I'm 21 years old and have been stuttering all my life. Most of the time I have done a good job of hiding it, mostly by changing out words and rearranging my ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterAug 27, 2019
2 points

I keep saying "um, um, um" repeatedly when talking on the phone.

I keep saying "um, um, um" repeatedly when talking on the phone. I go like I'm um um um looking to make um an appointment. It's really embarrassing (English is my mother tongue, so that's not the prob...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2019
18 points

Hey man, I get it. Most of us on this subreddit get it. This stutter thing really adds a whole other dimension to our lives. It makes speaking hard, it takes our energy away, and really reduces our vi...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterAug 27, 2019
32 points

this is a crisis , like really.

this is a crisis , like really. i stuttered my whole life , but recently it is getting so much worse. i'am a 19 year old boy who is starting university and more responsibilities are in the way. i real...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2019
1 points

Ik man. I gotta present for my final year project defense this friday and I'm scared as fuck. Even emailed my teacher to give me 0 but I don't wanna give it but she wants me to come no matter what. Pr...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2019
1 points

Before doing something you should ask yourself "whats the worst that can happen?" Most of the time the worst thing that can happen isnt that bad...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterAug 26, 2019
2 points

Any tips for introducing myself in a meeting?

Any tips for introducing myself in a meeting? Hey guys. I've been stuttering since I was 4-5 and I'm 21 now. I'm interning at this company, and today they're having a discussion among all the young m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterAug 26, 2019
19 points

Later I'm gonna die

Later I'm gonna die Tomorrow I have my first presentation at work so first 2 things: 1) I really suck on presentations in front of other people 2) the presentation is on english and english is not my...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2019
2 points

its one the most awkward moments i have to face. I don't even know how to react to it and so i pretend to be deeply focused in the movie idk why...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2019
1 points

I think you described it excellently when you said “20+ years of speech experience and muscle memory.” We have such a strong reflex to talk in the way that’s natural, and I think social expectations a...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 24, 2019
1 points

I know it's hard, at least in the beggining, but i am confident that it will be better in the long run. I think it should be hard as you are overwriting 20+ years of speech experience and muscle memor...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2019
1 points

100% relatable. What I've done is I now focus on understanding/combating whatever anxiety I'm feeling, this usually helps to minimize the level of stutter...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindfulness & Breathing
postr/StutterAug 23, 2019
5 points

Anybody experiencing with voluntary/pseudo stuttering?

Anybody experiencing with voluntary/pseudo stuttering? 28 m, stutterer since 5. I can read and talk fluently when alone, but experiencing anxiety and fear of judgment when with people. Went to an S...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
postr/StutterAug 23, 2019
6 points

Vicious cycle vent

Vicious cycle vent I’m from Spain, and have been stuttering severely my whole life. Stuttering is a vicious cycle. You stutter because you know you’re gonna stutter, and you know you’re gonna stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2019
6 points

Stuttering is a vicious cycle. You stutter because you know you’re gonna stutter, and you know you’re gonna stutter because you stutter. The expectation of stuttering, mixed with the fear of being jud...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoss of Control
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2019
1 points

When I went to church while on vacation the priest stuttered. When I heard him in the beginning, the way he talked initially already caught my attention but I blew it off thinking no way. Then during ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterAug 23, 2019
1 points

I’m on the same boat as you. I actually went to a speech therapist once in the eighth grade and I talked flawlessly. The only thing she told me that I remember is that I didn’t really maintain eye con...

Speech & StutteringSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesSchool & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment