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postr/StutterJun 17, 2020
4 points

Need advice on what to do with my stutter

Need advice on what to do with my stutter Hey guys this is my first reddit post so I’m not really sure how to work this thing but here it goes. I’m 19 years old, and I’ve been stuttering for as long ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterJun 16, 2020
25 points

Stuttering and dating

Stuttering and dating Hey guys I'm curious. Has anyone else had/have trouble in dating or meeting girls so they dive deep into the "game"? With RSD or any other dating niches? And what has your expe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
postr/StutterJun 16, 2020
3 points

Looking for opinions!

Looking for opinions! Hey, I am Marty, a 18 years old guy. I was thinking about this a lot, and I have decided to ask for anyone else's opinion. I stutter since the age of around 7. Have 2 family memb...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2020
1 points

Normally, if begin well I can speak more easily after but I'll have to speak slowly and take my time, and I don't want them to think that I'm stupid. But if i stutter when I say "hi my name is.." it c...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 16, 2020
8 points

Huh... I don't know if it's because I've been stuttering since I was 4-6 years old. But when I feel the "block" coming, I don't feel anything anymore. I just let it come and take a pause in my senten...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2020
4 points

If I'm angry I'm fluent as fuck. I think it's cuz when I'm angry I'm focusing on other things other than how I speak so I'm distracted and I don't sabotage myself (by stuttering). Based on my experien...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2020
1 points

The fact that preference varies just shows how important it is to treat people with stutters as individuals. There's no one-size-fits-all strategy. You have to learn what each individual wants. For t...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Listener ReactionsAvoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2020
1 points

Well I'd say keep trying to find a job, I don't believe avoidance is good, it's not about powering through, it's about coping with a stutter that's big going away, everyone's in the same boat you have...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindfulness & BreathingStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2020
10 points

This is so true. At least i am glad for instant messaging in which i can properly argue my point....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJun 15, 2020
6 points

Advice?

Advice? I (19F) have a severe stutter and have been home from college ever since spring break, so about mid-late March. I’m living with my grandmother, and never had a problem until recently. She has ...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2020
18 points

This is probably why I’m so bad at confrontation. I hate arguing more than anything but what makes it worse is that I’m worried about looking stupid if I stutter while arguing. I love a good debate a...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2020
4 points

“Don’t worry, the connection is fine. I lag in person too! If you’d like a coffee break, I can probably turn it up for you...”...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2020
1 points

I have heard speech therapy doesn't work and ever since I learned that stuttering has no cure, I just gave up and learned to leave with it. But these two videos have helped me reduce it, [Video 2](h...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionResearch & Resources
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2020
4 points

Just keep attending more interviews. You will get nervous, you will fail. But just keep trying. It depends upon the job u r trying for too. If it is into sales and marketing i think the stutter will ...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJun 15, 2020
16 points

Cried to my mom yesterday

Cried to my mom yesterday Hey everyone, I hope everyone’s doing good amidst this pandemic. Ever since the pandemic started, my stutter has gotten worse, I think it’s the worst it has ever gotten! So ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 15, 2020
2 points

I think its because once they said it the pressure is no more, but it comes back in the next word and the cycle continues. I sometimes wish they continue my words if they know what I mean, I remember ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesOverthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJun 15, 2020
13 points

Scaring someone?

Scaring someone? I went through a drive through to Dairy Queen today with some of my friends. I usually stutter when I ask questions, or order food(or on bad days just starting sentences). Usually whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionStrategic Swearing/Cursing+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
2 points

My 2 cents. I'm 49, began Stuttering at age 5 due to traumatic dog attack. After 20 years of speech therapy, I went from 0% fluency to about 90%. Before, I hated when people would finish my sent...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Trauma & PsychologicalAcceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
postr/StutterJun 14, 2020
3 points

How can I get the courage to apply for a job?

How can I get the courage to apply for a job? Im 17 and still haven't had a job yet. If I could I would. But, I have anxiety, mostly about seeing people I know or having to describe things/talk to str...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2020
1 points

Sounds like it. Petitions, running starts and blocks are all stuttering avoidance behaviors...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution