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commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
1 points

I might. Its still a relatively low chance. In my family, only me, my mum and my uncle stutter. All my cousins, my little sister, grandparents etc, do not. And even if I have children that stutter, ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Genetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
1 points

Mine too… Well, if you count one other member out of a 50 member family a genetic risk (or normal population distribution). So, if a 2% chance is a deal breaker, then I guess you might want to consid...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2024
2 points

as it currently stands, I don't see a life with children. If I had kids doing all the things I've ever wanted to do would suddenly become unattainable. I'm still young, so maybe in the future if I mee...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsHelplessness & AgencyTrauma & Psychological
postr/StutterNov 11, 2024
6 points

Adults, was your job/career influenced by your stutter?

Adults, was your job/career influenced by your stutter? I graduated college a few years ago. Now, I'm working at job that makes decent money. It really just kind of happened - I didn't really think to...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 11, 2024
30 points

Im not proud of my youth and my current life status

Im not proud of my youth and my current life status I feel so small and impotent. so many questions I have not asked, conversations and debates in which I have not participated for fear of making a fo...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2024
14 points

Med student here, 4th year of studying, i don't care about anything in this world anymore, and just follow the flow of life...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 11, 2024
3 points

The problem is, every stutter is different. Root causes are often different. It can't just be hand-waved away. We can endlessly repeat that James Earl Jones "beat" his stutter or that Joe Biden became...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2024
7 points

I am so sorry to hear this happened to you. I can assure you of one thing, you are NOT crazy, my friend. We are many out there that stutters and we don’t stutter because it is something specific we ha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterNov 10, 2024
1 points

If what you say about society is true why does it not bear fruit for all stutterers?  The claim from OP is that society judges based on their fluency and favors articulate communication, where is the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 9, 2024
1 points

Choose your battlegrounds. Speaking a certain word, which you didn’t even know before, under pressure ->> certainly not easy for most stutters You cannot choose or control situations all the time so ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
2 points

Undoubtedly, it's annoying how some people I work with think I am slow or just incapable due to my speech pattern. I like have any control over random moments of stuttering, I just learn to deal with ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
1 points

So true. I remain reticent in many situations. I thought I have a talent for speaking. In normal discussion or debate with peers or some random strangers I can make them shut up with my eloquence. But...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
2 points

Not just jobs, that time I didn’t speak up here, or raise my hand there, or jump at the chance that few times. Can become a sad game of dominos quickly....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
2 points

Iam glad you are doing good in your career. I also always wonder how different my life would be. The thoughts of being more confident, to be eloquent in front of people and articulate with conviction ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
6 points

I agree and I’m in the same boat as you. Blocks, it gives me anxiety, makes me want to never talk to new people, I bomb interviews and don’t get the jobs I want even though I know I’m a great candidat...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
14 points

Bitter truth to swallow but this is the harsh reality. Some individuals are fortunate to be thriving despite their stutter but most of us are stagnating. My life is not a mess right now, but everythin...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterNov 8, 2024
32 points

In a society like ours living with stuttering is a curse.

In a society like ours living with stuttering is a curse. The world we inhabit perpetuates barriers for individuals like us who stutters. Society inherently judges people by their fluency, often perce...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterNov 8, 2024
7 points

Just had an interaction with delivery driver & now i wanna kms

Just had an interaction with delivery driver & now i wanna kms He was upset that i sent him "wtf????" Because he didn't answer when i called then he turned off his phone. Due to my low self esteem i ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterNov 8, 2024
9 points

Need more confidence

Need more confidence I have been stuttering for as long as i can remember, and it has been an obstacle in so many different things that I have given up just so I don't have to talk to people. There a...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterNov 8, 2024
1 points

I know it that i only have one life left and i need to make it worth my while without any fear but sometimes I can't even control my stutter and i stutter terribly infront of people and i feel helples...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more