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commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
2 points

Trust me I know how you feel. It absolutely sucks. Not being able to say your own name is just awful because you just give off a first impression you can’t take back. I was at a job fair trying to get...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
19 points

You ever get "cant remember your name?' ? Introducing myself is pretty much the only time I stutter....frustrating. Hang in there, dont beat yourself up or look down on yourself....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
postr/StutterNov 1, 2019
3 points

My stutter sounds wierd how can I change it?

My stutter sounds wierd how can I change it? Hey I have been stuttering from childhood till now I'm 23 years old and my stutter sounds like a broken car, my brother and my father also have a classic s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
9 points

That sucks. I've had teachers comment on the way I spoke in front of everyone too. Nobody (in my real life at least) knows what it's like to live like this. I get so jealous of fluent people. I know i...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
19 points

I still remember a teacher from 40 years ago yelling at me, in front of the class of course, when I would get stuck on a word. The name thing is always the worst, I’ve gotten better with practice, bu...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
6 points

J. But I don't think that has anything to do with it. I don't have problems with J's elsewhere. You could change my name to anything and just the stress and time pressure associated with it will cause...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesPhysical TensionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterNov 1, 2019
8 points

I think my stutter makes my boss feel uncomfortable...

I think my stutter makes my boss feel uncomfortable... I'm a first year grad student and I think my adviser feels uncomfortable (and sometimes avoids) speaking to me because of my stutter. Whenever I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterNov 1, 2019
68 points

Not being able to say my name is making me very depressed

Not being able to say my name is making me very depressed I'm really tired of people treating me like shit because of my speech disability. Just today I was at a resteraunt and placed my order, they a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
2 points

Thanks for sharing your story. I know all the Benzo family helping with the anxiety but Clonezpam is top of the list for that. Along with helping with insomenia. Didn't know xanax is also helping...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2019
13 points

I've had the same experience on Xanax. Let me tell you from personal experience of doing this for years, be fucking careful. You start off at the lowest dose like "Huh. That's weird. I feel pretty go...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentSide Effects & Risks+1 more
postr/StutterOct 31, 2019
9 points

Late onset stutter

Late onset stutter Hello, I’m new to this community and have been reading a lot of your guys posts on stuttering. I am 20 years old and didn’t start stuttering until about 2 years ago when I was 18 an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2019
5 points

I am 34 and continue to block every day. For quite a long time I felt similarly to you. I disliked the hidden disability aspect of stuttering. I felt more of a hindrance than an asset in social situat...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & AgencySeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2019
2 points

Good shit facing your fears. Something that I think we stutterers all suffer from is the thought that people will laugh us out of the building because we aren’t fluent. If u learn to not give a shit, ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2019
3 points

First off, I am very sorry that you are going through this experience. But I have to tell you something that I am 100% sure no one is telling you or 100% sure you aren't listening. I think the most ...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice Requests+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2019
5 points

The stress is the hardest part. Letting go of that fear takes time and exposure. Work at your own pace. It's nice you have a family support that allows you to take your time integrating into the workf...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentSituational Variability+1 more
postr/StutterOct 30, 2019
5 points

Reception job?

Reception job? I’m currently looking for a new job (24F) and I’m interested in a few receptionist jobs. Have any of you had any experience in this job and if so what was it like? I’m good with talking...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2019
13 points

There are so many things to unpack here. 1. Your discomfort with her speech: that doesn't make you a bad person, it just makes you an unaccepting person at this time. Can you change, yes. should you ...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2019
1 points

I have had therapy. I tried speech therapy when I was a sophomore in high school, then tried normal counseling in my second year of college. I'm finding that most of my anxiety comes from my mom speci...

Emotional ExperienceParent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentParent Emotions & GuiltFamily Support & Conflict
postr/StutterOct 27, 2019
4 points

A piece of advice for you.

A piece of advice for you. Yo. I keep hearing how hard it is for us stutters to date. From stuttering, to lack of confidence, anxiety, to not knowing how to make someone understand. Well. Lucky for yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterOct 27, 2019
1 points

Tips for other people’s stutter affecting mine?

Tips for other people’s stutter affecting mine? I’m sorry if this has been asked already. I’m new here. I’m 20 and I’ve had my stutter my entire life, like nearly everyone here. My stutter has alway...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more