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commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
5 points

It's not that simple. Even if I don't care, I still stutter. You work on caring less and less everyday and accepting yourself for who you are, including other things you don't like about yourself. You...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2024
3 points

I present often enough and i find when I enunciate and talk In my presentation voice, I never stutter. It’s because I’m talking slightly differently that usual...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2024
8 points

Everyone knows you have a stutter! Sounds like a no shit but when you start applying to life and stop trying to “talk normally” and let yourself just flow through social interactions knowing you can...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2024
12 points

Realising that people who are worth speaking to will be more interested in what you have to say than how you say it. I realised this only recently. I know it sounds cringe and cliche but it really i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2024
4 points

I think you should be honest with your examiner. Unless your master's is going to require fluent speech, it shouldn't matter to your career. What is your master’s degree? I spent my life avoiding my ...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerAccess & RightsAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2024
23 points

"She didn't say anything and continued the convo as normal." Sounds to me like she knows you stutter and doesn't care. Does it matter that you stuttered in that moment? Did you manage to get what you...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Listener ReactionsAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
4 points

Disclose it early on, early as possible and don’t run away from speaking opportunities. It’s a skill that can be built on and the more you do it the more you will get better at it. My presentations ...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersPublic SpeakingAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
4 points

The best cure is not given a F\*\*\* about what others think about you and just live your life! Stutter freely and openly!...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
2 points

I know it may be too late at this point, but I would just go and do it. Stuttering and all! I don't give a F about the teammates or the teacher, but I do care about how you feel about yourself. Do it ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2024
4 points

Good luck with your interview tomorrow! I am sure it will go really well. I have an internal battle where at times I feel at peace with stuttering and at other times I am not. I find that if I start ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2024
2 points

I'm more relaxed about word substitution. I used to get annoyed at myself for avoiding words and using other words that were less than ideal. So I started forcing through the word I wanted to use, but...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
5 points

Make sure you take a moment to acknowledge that you actually showed up. You got out what you went there to say. When done, reflect on it.. I bet it went just fine. I hasted a call today with 20 peopl...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2024
7 points

Maybe you can be honest upfront and say something like: “welcome to my presentation, as some of you may know I have a stutter and am somewhat nervous to do this” Or something like that....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterApr 23, 2024
17 points

Note to stutters in their 20s who substitute words because the fear of stuttering.

Note to stutters in their 20s who substitute words because the fear of stuttering. For a long time, I used to try and hide my stutter by swapping words or changing how I said things on the spot. It wa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterApr 18, 2024
40 points

Victory

Victory Had a rare win today. I’m a professor at a decent size public university. I was asked to be on a speakers panel related to my academic and professional experience. There’s maybe 50 students in...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2024
5 points

I completely understand how you feel. It seems so natural and people don't think twice about their speech. The only thing I can say is focus on the positives. I'm not sure about you, but I give mor...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2024
1 points

Hey bro, Thanks for opening up about what you're going through. Really. It takes guts to lay it all out there like that. I totally get where you're coming from with the anxiety and the struggle to ...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2024
9 points

You're right. Start simple. Be honest. Don't be deceitful about your stutter. Don't conceal. Don't avoid. Just as people mirror, they can tell when we're lying. And they misunderstand. They can see ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterApr 16, 2024
15 points

People mirror our attitudes towards ourselves

People mirror our attitudes towards ourselves I've often heard that people tend to mirror our attitudes towards ourselves. If we're awkward and weird about our stutter, others might feel awkward and w...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterApr 15, 2024
13 points

Whats something you had to accept

Whats something you had to accept (related to stuttering obv) Ill start. Had to accept that i will not be as easily lovable as some people. Like this friend, hes so lovable I literally fell in love ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideFriendships & BelongingHelplessness & Agency+1 more