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postr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
6 points

Rant

Rant Hi im 18 and im about to go to university in 2021 afteer a gap year. since i was 11 my stutter has really put a holt on my life in the fact that i have held myself back on many occasions in my li...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
1 points

If you are alone or in your comfort zone, there is no worry. Because you feel yourself safe. If you feel that you have to show a speech performance, such as answering a question or giving an importan...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
3 points

The risk is higher on the phone. Because you don't get the response to your speech on the phone visually, which will directly tell you that you are not understood by the person on the phone. That's pu...

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postr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
6 points

Do you stutter more in person or when talking to person in phone?

Do you stutter more in person or when talking to person in phone? I wanna ask this because I stutter more when I'm talking to someone on my phone. I repeat words, then there's blocks, i struggle to sp...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
3 points

I can relate with that. My stutter prevents me from being emotionally charged. When I get emotional, it's difficult for me to speak. The effect it has had on my personality has essentially mellowed me...

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
2 points

When I talk to people I've never met or hardly talk to. Thankfully, when I talk to family or friends, my stuttering is hardly noticeable....

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commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
1 points

u might find this unbelievable but people don't care if we stutter or not. If they like u they'll like u no matter what. Period. Also, you don't stutter cuz ur self confidence is low tho, thats not w...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
2 points

My confidence is okay, the trouble I have is, when I get blocked, I get slightly upset at myself, as though I can control it and I've failed to do so. I'm getting better at it, though. I just thought...

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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
1 points

Hello Bastian, I’m Ayla & I’m from the United States but am actually Norwegian by blood 🇳🇴 so I’m 20 and have only had a stutter for the past 2 years or so. I believe it’s from an extremely low ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
5 points

This was me shortly after college. Life is so much better not caring what others think about how I talk....

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Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
2 points

i feel you bro. introductions are the hardest part, feeling like you’re making the other person uncomfortable is awful. i think we gotta just stay confident, and they will match the vibe. keep your he...

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commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
2 points

Hi Bastian, am Fasel from North Africa. I am sorry that you have recognized that you are a stutterer. I know it is a living hell when it comes to communicating with ppl. For me, I knew that I stutt...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
14 points

My stuttering life

My stuttering life I don't know how to start. I wasn't planning to write this, and especially not on Reddit, but here we are. I can start by introducing myself: I am Bastian. A 15-year-old boy from No...

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Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
46 points

I stutter because my self confidence is low. My self confidence is low because I stutter. What's the solution?

I stutter because my self confidence is low. My self confidence is low because I stutter. What's the solution? ...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
1 points

Try speech therapy if u haven't. It works very well for some people. It'll help you overcome your fear of stuttering....

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postr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
13 points

After I had been through a serious experience that cost me sth I have longed to achieve, I might have just touched upon a key factor in being comfortable with stuttering and probbaly eventually overcoming this impediment.

After I had been through a serious experience that cost me sth I have longed to achieve, I might have just touched upon a key factor in being comfortable with stuttering and probbaly eventually overco...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
1 points

I also get anxious sometimes when I'm waiting in line, but like everything in life it gets easier when you do it more often. My mindset nowadays whilst waiting in line is: I'm the customer, I'm king, ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2020
5 points

Just don't let the muscles tighten up when you enter the Class. Stay relaxed. At any point if you feel Stress, just take a deep breath. When you're exhaling (make sure to exhale through Mouth) the dee...

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commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2020
4 points

Public speaking can be intense. Focus on what you’re saying rather than what people may or may not be thinking. There’s a good chance they won’t care if you stutter. Anyways, good luck! I hope it goes...

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postr/StutterFeb 18, 2020
39 points

Do you guys anticipate how talking in front of others is going to go so much it drives you absolutely crazy?

Do you guys anticipate how talking in front of others is going to go so much it drives you absolutely crazy? With me it’s so hit or miss I never know when I’m going to completely stutter over everythi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more