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commentr/StutterOct 16, 2020
5 points

I think it would be a good idea to approach the girl you want and don't try to not stutter. Then you'll notice that you stammer less than usual. Allow her to know you stutter and act happy when she a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 16, 2020
2 points

i also block every single time, the chat function is your best friend...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2020
1 points

Yes same problem here. I tend to use alternatives to dodge words I predict wouldn't come out smoothly in my mouth (words that start with b especially better before but), but i understand im just dodgi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2020
1 points

Nowadays all platforms some kind of virtual achievement system...even if they do not I feel it will be the same because not like old days (im an old school gamer since SEGA mega drive) im now playing ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2020
2 points

Thank you...the funny thing is I mainly play singleplayer games and very rarly multiplayer :)...its very rare to be addicted to singleolayer games...but it happens if you combined it with a virtual ac...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2020
1 points

First of all your English is great. Second of all, I am curious what do you mean by "gaming addiction"? Because I think games like Fortnite and Fallout 4 are completely different games. I am "a new ga...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2020
1 points

I don't want to change my mind. I want to control my stuttering....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
1 points

Yeah, that's a common trick. :) But also, if it starts getting on your nerves that you can never say the initial word that you wanted to use, pay attention to that. It can be a lot of effort to run s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 14, 2020
5 points

The best methods I personally use to deal with stuttering and it has worked out amazingly for me

The best methods I personally use to deal with stuttering and it has worked out amazingly for me When I was 9 I use to stutter a lot and would make a mockery of myself when I was told to read certain ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
1 points

If you're worried about coopting a disability, you might be ok saying that you suffer from some speech disfluencies (granted that may be harder to say so reword cautiously). Before I knew what was g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
6 points

That’s fantastic! I’m 21 and remember my first job. I was so nervous to answer phone calls and respond to people’s support tickets. 6 years later I’m about to finish my bachelors and working as a Netw...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
2 points

A stutter and palilalia (vocal tic) are similar but not the same. From what I've read, I think it has to do with where in the [act of speaking the disfluency happens](https://www.sciencedirect.com/top...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
1 points

>"They also clearly state in the training to talk smoothly and not to stutter which scared me even more" if you don't quit, it would be easier if you allow yourself to sutter a little. The more yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
4 points

If you have a good job and stable income, why don't you seek professional help? I don't believe in accepting our stuttering and just move on as a "happy stutterer", without striving to become better s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
2 points

Thanks for sharing man. A big turning point for me was accepting that even if I woke up tomorrow without a stutter, my life would still be full of challenges just like everyone else. Also realizing th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
5 points

I wanted my first post on reddit to be a separat post, but after reading this i just have to reply... I can relate to what the Threat creator written and eliquently described 90%... This is exactly ho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
2 points

I feel the same way bro, but you can’t let stuttering win and take over your life.you gotta keep fighting until you can control it.Never give up!!!!!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
2 points

On today's episode of stuttering lifehacks: Maybe you can say like 10-02-1960 like all numbers...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
1 points

Can you flip the script? If you're already ok with quitting and it's not a financial issue for you, this is a unique opportunity where you get to practice speech with many different people that you'll...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2020
1 points

Dont quit, I sutter and I have to answer helpdesk calls everyday. Some times I sutter and sometime it doesn't happen. Its just something we deal with. I've been answering the phones for over 20 years ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career