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postr/StutterJun 5, 2024
10 points

Do you stutter seasonally or due to some emotional change?

Do you stutter seasonally or due to some emotional change? Hello community, I have been stuttering for as long as I can remember. I am 30 years old now. Analyzing my situation, I've noticed improvemen...

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postr/StutterJun 4, 2024
10 points

Tired of trying to fix my stutter. Should I just accept it?

Tired of trying to fix my stutter. Should I just accept it? I am constantly trying to Google how to fix my stuttering and also look for YouTube videos. I watched multiple vids of like 30 minutes long ...

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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
22 points

You sound like me when I was in Highschool. If I had the balls to do it, I would have taken my own life. Glad I didn’t because life did get better and now I’m married and things are pretty chill. I ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
0 points

If you have recently started stuttering then the best thing is to FORGET about it and move on. The more you discuss the more it gets into your head....

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commentr/StutterJun 2, 2024
3 points

The research presentation ends with the advice: "*An effective treatment method should focus on changing the stutterer’ s disordered and dysfunctional beliefs that he / she is not able to talk with fl...

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commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
2 points

I think when discussing the causes of stuttering, you have to discuss this, [Monster Study](https://youtu.be/os5ThrJfXVE?si=03x8wLETjbpiLxYG) I feel like as I have gotten older I have developed bet...

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commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
6 points

First memory I have is from (I think) 1st grade. Remember talking to someone after lunch and I couldn’t get a word out. As I was struggling, they just looked at me and walked away. Things like that wo...

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commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
3 points

Your right man 100%. I know anxiety is real because I've lived with it my whole life. I'm not saying it's pathetic to be a little nervous but the fact that I'm still nervous & haven't accepted this im...

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commentr/StutterMay 30, 2024
3 points

You can start with reading for initial days to understand the technique. Also voice record yourself & listen it to know how it feels (sometimes we feel it is too slow but when you listen it , it does ...

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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
1 points

By doing it. A cheat code is to talk to everyone including animals and children. The way you get over it is through practice but you have to take it one day at a time....

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postr/StutterMay 29, 2024
18 points

Accept stuttering: (1) if we stutter, be okay with it - who cares. (2) if we have unhelpful (anticipatory) thoughts/feelings (aka cognitive fusion), then create distance from them (in other words, defusion)

Accept stuttering: (1) if we stutter, be okay with it - who cares. (2) if we have unhelpful (anticipatory) thoughts/feelings (aka cognitive fusion), then create distance from them (in other words, def...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
2 points

You have it in you, it just hasn't surfaced it. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable- this is the only way to grow. Take care & be well...

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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
2 points

What do you do besides work? What do you do for yourself? I know that socializing and communicating is such a big part of life but it’s not constant. You should try focus into your hobbies. I’ve s...

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commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
6 points

As someone that was in similar situations for coupke decade, i can honestly say that you can overcome this. It needs a little work and little guidance, but with consistency and right attitude, you can...

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commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
7 points

I second the motion: Don't put too much pressure on yourself I am a national trainer, and I give 4 hour PowerPoint trainings to medical professionals (doctors, nurses, psychologists, etc) 10x per ...

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commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
6 points

Before I get downvoted to hell. I mean don’t put so much pressure on yourself to make a good first impression by being funny and witty and interesting. If you don’t feel like saying something then don...

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commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
1 points

I was told by the most prominent stuttering expert in the world that my very mild, random, stutter should just be radically accepted. I’m very much a perfectionist and everything in my life needs to ...

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commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
1 points

so we tell those people to fk off... i need to absolutley do that more... who gives a fk what they think anyways .. there are so many shtty people on this earth do you take up space and talk these are...

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commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
3 points

I love this comment. How did you achieve this mindset, if I may ask? Sometimes I feel the same, other times I wish I could disappear. I want to let it go, but I don't know how....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
13 points

Well... Yes, technically you can't get rid of this neurological quirk you've been given. But you can absolutely get to a point in your life where you no longer care about it, and can manage it to a po...

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Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftHope & Motivation