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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2019
2 points

I feel ya. People either smile, laugh, or look confused that you can't say your name. I one time had a friend's dad say to me "it's not a hard question, sweetheart" so she said my name for me to get o...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2019
2 points

No. My stutter isn't normally *that* bad, but the combination of being caught completely off guard, and having to introduce myself in front of ~100 people was a deadly combination. I'm not seeing a...

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterDec 21, 2019
2 points

I moved into a new team at work some months ago. They have a monthly meeting, in which they ask new members to introduce themselves. I never stood up to introduce myself, and since I was never call...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2019
2 points

I hated the first day of classes for this same reason. I tried to make it early and meet the professor. Even if I still had to present myself it made it easier somehow knowing I already spoken to t...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2019
2 points

Discrimination. It's too late now but I try to emphasize the positives, as I see them, of a stutter. I think before I speak. As a, now ex, cop I have always been public facing. Whether it's facing a...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingPreparation & Rehearsal
postr/StutterDec 19, 2019
21 points

Tips for Phone Interviews

Tips for Phone Interviews When I started my first "real" job hunt a few years ago after graduating from school, I got multiple job offers despite my stutter. I disclosed at the beginning of the interv...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2019
2 points

Here's what I did and please note that I was a covert throughout high school and college in the sense that I would not openly tell people I stuttered unless they firsthand saw me stutter. Here's I got...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalSchool & Academic LifeEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2019
1 points

I just gave a presentation today. I emailed my professor a couple days ago and told him about my irrational fear of public speaking because of my stutter. I asked if I could practice with him there an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalPublic SpeakingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2019
3 points

You could tell your group that you want to present but be smart about it and choose the topic that has the least amount of words you stutter on, and ask them if you can do that part. Or, what I do whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalPublic SpeakingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2019
2 points

You're a politician...use a soundboard that only repeats your platform bullet points. nobody will even notice. seriously though. the best you can do is prepare, relax and know that you have the suppo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2019
4 points

I never have a problem speaking if I’m talking to myself/ talking when I’m alone. I like doing this to practice when I’m in my apartment alone. I will either pick a topic or find something randomly on...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Experiential AssociationFluency TechniquesPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterNov 29, 2019
2 points

Find a speech therapist and learn techniques to control fluency. There is no magic Pill. I practiced in front of a mirror for years and that helped me a great deal along with diaphragmatic breathing...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Seeking TherapyMindfulness & BreathingPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2019
2 points

Go for it! Rehearse answers to common questions beforehand and hold your chin up when you go in. You got this!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2019
2 points

Firstly congratulations for being about to graduate college! Personally, I know it isn’t great but I tend to avoid words I stutter with where possible, it isn’t a solution but more of an avoidance tec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2019
3 points

If you have the confidence just fiat out say something like "Hey before I start, I tend to stammer quite a bit so bear with me", so that people can understand easier and if you do find yourself stamme...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2019
1 points

When you are actually already doing a debate competition, it seems there's little that can be done, dude even normies would be shy away from a debate competition, so kudos for you, but let's see what ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalHope & MotivationSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2019
2 points

When I was at your age, my parents never talked about my stuttering because they believed doing so would only make me even more aware of my stuttering, thus it would make my stuttering get worse. So ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 16, 2019
1 points

I think that one important thing a stutterer should do is to have a profound understanding of the subject that he/she is going to present. When I thought about it, I found out that When I well prepar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Preparation & RehearsalPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterNov 15, 2019
29 points

I gave presentation for an hour , feels good .

I gave presentation for an hour , feels good . Today I have done a technology presentation for an hour with some demo . Things that worked for me : 1.Write notes to speak for each slide . 2.Spend m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Preparation & RehearsalFluency TechniquesSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
postr/StutterNov 11, 2019
28 points

How I stop my stutter

How I stop my stutter Almost every time I stutter it's the first word. After I say the first word I'll say uh uh uhhhh and then say it again. So after I say the first word I stop and take a small (or ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesFeared Words & NamesPreparation & Rehearsal+1 more