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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2024
1 points

I personally wouldn’t help because I hate when people do that to me, even though I know it usually comes from a good place. I would say something after though like “hey I stutter too, isn’t it the wor...

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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
2 points

I feel you. The way I'm trying to get over the ridiculousness of my stutter is by owning it. Sometimes people just don't care about it, and the ones that make me feel awkward about it, I just try to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
5 points

That’s not very nice of you to insult me. You said, paraphrasing, that EVERY problem you have is someone else’s fault. Stuttering is a disability, and it is nobody’s fault. But you need to stop thin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
4 points

Yeah I understand I had that same issue, you’re constantly interpreting their reactions and it’s useful but it comes to a point where you only think about yourself, also your perception isn’t always r...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2024
3 points

Whenever I tell people, sometimes they respond like they never noticed me stuttering, but these are the people I talked very less because of shyness. When I told them I felt relaxed....

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2024
5 points

One time, I asked my former speech pathologist if it was okay for me to inform people I stuttered before a presentation. She said something along the lines of, "If that makes you feel comfortable, go ...

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
5 points

I second this. I started telling people and it's really improved my life, especially at work. Amazing how much anxiety it lifts....

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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
11 points

It’s always good to inform ppl u have a stutter. Some ppl are still gonna be weird about it, but some ppl are cool. Ur doing great in my book, some ppl are not comfortable enough to disclose they have...

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postr/StutterJan 17, 2024
18 points

i have this habit of telling people i stutter before talking to someone because i don’t want them looking at me crazy😭(they still end up doing it anyway)

i have this habit of telling people i stutter before talking to someone because i don’t want them looking at me crazy😭(they still end up doing it anyway) ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
4 points

I’m in my 4th decade, slightly grey, and still can’t pronounce my name when I need to book an appointment. Nothing to be ashamed of. I recommend to you find some alternatives but don’t make your frien...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJan 17, 2024
11 points

Can't say my name... Do you know a way to do it?

Can't say my name... Do you know a way to do it? Hello, I am 17 and have been stuttering since 4-5 years now. I mainly have big blanks in the middle or the beginning of a sentence. I followed therapy ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Blocks & StoppagesFeared Words & NamesAnticipating Stuttering+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
3 points

In time and it's hard, but your suffering will decrease when you accept and disclose your stutter to those around you....

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Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2024
3 points

Whenever I meet someone new I stutter quite a bit. As I get to know them, my stutter lessens with them. For things like interviews or important meetings with people I've never met, I'll often let th...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
4 points

I’m only in my mid 20s but can relate to this. My stutter used to be a lot worse and is now manageable. And I don’t put as much effort into hiding it anymore because I’m no longer ashamed or afraid of...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
3 points

I don’t know how much this will help but I’m also 19 and my bf, 20, has a stutter the way he said I made him comfortable is when we first met he allowed me to ask questions, before him I never met som...

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commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
4 points

I find that simply being open about it, thanking people for their patience or simply just saying "hey just so you know what that was..." helps a lot. Being open with someone allows them to be more ope...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2024
1 points

For me, there were tricks that *enabled* me to change my mindset. 1. Make many phone calls and do voluntary repetitions, talking as much as possible, while looking at myself in the mirror. 2. Begin...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureDisclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2024
18 points

This is a very important step towards freeing the mind of the burden of self-shame caused by a stutter. Speech therapy is hit or miss for many of us, which is why I think that complete fluency shoul...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2024
6 points

You cant choose or change how your coworkers behave. Your coworkers may be avoiding you because they they feel that you are embarrassed by your stutter. So they might hesitate to approach you. so he...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2024
1 points

You could start your presentation with commenting that you have a stutter, which alleviates expectations. You could even make a joke like “I may take longer to speak, which will also fill in my 2mins ...

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