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commentr/StutterJun 7, 2024
7 points

"I've always wanted to be on stage, and perform". You accidentally wrote the answer to your own question. Go for it ! The regret of going there and stuttering will always be less strong and signific...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2024
1 points

Hmm I think if spoken to, I’m super open try to engage with the person as much as possible and try not to close down the conversation prematurely and ask follow up questions. Often times at a gatherin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 6, 2024
9 points

Anyone else avoid family gatherings or any gatherings because of their stutter? And if they do go you just sit in the corner on their phone. Or do you not let your stutter determine weather you’re introverted or extroverted?

Anyone else avoid family gatherings or any gatherings because of their stutter? And if they do go you just sit in the corner on their phone. Or do you not let your stutter determine weather you’re int...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Loneliness & IsolationHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2024
5 points

All motor problems of stuttering is the result of stuttering not the cause of it. There are merely symptoms and do not address the problem. Tackle the problem and the motor and muscles issues will go ...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Physical TensionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2024
1 points

I would even go a step further. In that, tensing the lips is not required. Yes but relaxing the lip muscles would also not be required, right? It's not that tensing my lips to its maximum extent preve...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Physical TensionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2024
3 points

When we stutter on our name because we see it as important to say. We feel like we cannot move forward to continue saying the sound (to say our name).. we feel as if we are stuck on a word. We blame n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2024
3 points

When people ask me how it feel, I say it's like trying so hard to move one of your ears....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2024
2 points

There is a demon tenant inside my throat whose frame blocks my vision, whose presence prevents the full gust of wind to hit my body, whose towering figure casts a shadow on me and I have no light of m...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2024
19 points

There are a couple of excerpts from the book Warm Bodies by Isaac Marion that really got to me. It's about a sentient zombie, but could apply to stammerers equally well: “In my mind I am eloquent; I ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2024
1 points

topics: * What we think is required to move the speech muscles VS what is actually required * Explaining vicious circle * Talk about the dozens of different modalities; only focusing on one single ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & WeightAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 2, 2024
21 points

Why is it easier talking to strangers

Why is it easier talking to strangers I don’t know if everyone has this or just me, but I find that when I talk to strangers, I am a lot more careful and self-conscious about my stuttering. But I can’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2024
1 points

As a woman, I can assure you right now that I would look at a man no differently if he had a stutter. In fact I would find it very attractive and “manly” if a guy would be upfront and confident about ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2024
12 points

For me, I discovered speech blocks happened because of my fear to actually stutter. A "normal" stutter will go like "st-st-st-s-ss-stutter" or "b-b-b-b-b-b-bread". Me fearing that others could actual...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
1 points

Terminologies explained: * **Speech errors**: Stuttering-like disfluencies and hesitations are **NOT** speech errors. But they signify underlying errors that are detected in the speech motor plan and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
8 points

That's a tough question. I've had speech therapy as a child, which didn't amount to very much. My stutter wasn't... /too/ bad, yet it conditioned me to stay quiet, and made me avoid social interaction...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
3 points

Well, I was fully on board until your last sentence. Anyway, yes people tell me all the time that I don't stutter. They think I'm just being self deprecating or something. I don't mind if they say "I ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
3 points

I love this comment. How did you achieve this mindset, if I may ask? Sometimes I feel the same, other times I wish I could disappear. I want to let it go, but I don't know how....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
3 points

People don't care about our stutter as much as we think they do. Everyone has their problems to deal with and will have forgotten about us the next day, while we sit at home with a lingering thought o...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2024
7 points

I perfectly understand what you mean! Even when people know I have a stutter & I try to talk about it, they react by telling me I don't have a problem at all. I feel like this invalidates and denies a...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2024
2 points

Mine is the same. But I’m a bit better at masking it. However, the stakes when it does sneak out are now higher (work presentations, job interviews, etc.)...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking