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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2018
1 points

I don't stutter but I fell in love with a guy who does. We met online, and it's one of the first things he wrote about himself. I thought it, and the way he told me about it, was extremely adorable, a...

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commentr/StutterMar 12, 2018
1 points

Remember its not about whether you stutter or not. Its about if you find a way to pull through that stutter. Find a strategy that will work for you and make sure to use it, don't be afraid to. Also ta...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2018
2 points

My boyfriend didn’t think much of it. I tried to hide it from him but sooner or later it happened and he said nothing about it. I told him I stuttered and he just thinks of it as another part of who I...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2018
1 points

My girlfriend doesn’t care really all that much. She only makes fun of it, in which I do the same thing. We have a good time making fun of it. As for your situation, try and start a conversation wit...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2018
2 points

When i first met my SO, I was with my cousin and he kind of wondered what was wrong with me. Since him and my cousin were friends, he asked about it and she told him it was my stutter. Now, he says it...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2018
13 points

With my girl she thinks it's cute and likes it cuz it's makes me who I am. And she is also more protective of it then me. Like I could careless if I stutter around people or what they say but she gets...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2018
2 points

You're looking at it from the wrong perspective. Look at it as an opportunity to catch up with people and meet new ones. Put your stutter out there, don't be afraid of it. If it doesn't bother you it ...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2018
5 points

Being open about it is HUGE. I was ashamed of my stutter for the longest time and preferred to pretend it didn't exist. Once I acknowledged it and accepted it as a part of my identity, stuttering co...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2018
2 points

Great post. You have given some simple practical advices. What you said in the beginning, about other people reactions, is plain truth. Maybe it's hard and scary to understand, but the fact is that ...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2018
9 points

Don't hide it. Most people are kind if you tell them about it. But be prepared, they will constantly recommend to you to watch the movie "King's Speech". :D...

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postr/StutterMar 9, 2018
4 points

Accept yourself and stop focusing on other people's reactions

Accept yourself and stop focusing on other people's reactions Stutterers are always focusing way too much on how other people will react, how others feel. Why? Why do you let other people's reactions ...

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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2018
5 points

I have worked very hard on my speech since I was a kid and it’s had its ups and downs. However, I’ve been able to own my stutter and work in sales making good money - and it’s a personal accomplishmen...

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commentr/StutterMar 8, 2018
2 points

Try, "hi I'm ____, I am a person who stutters". And feel the anxiety melt away....

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
6 points

Accept your anxiety. The more you try denying it, the stronger it becomes. It's like saying, Don't think about pink elephants. That's all you will end up doing. Accept the anxiety and that it is ok an...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
1 points

I've openly shared over the past year. You can read more about my recovery here: r/Stutter/comments/6eg2ix/cured_at_36....

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
2 points

Absolutely. When you show people that you're interested in how they're doing, it's such a good first impression. It definitely sets the tone going forward. I stutter all the time with my name when i...

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commentr/StutterMar 7, 2018
5 points

Smile! "Hey, how are you?" "Good morning." You don't have to go in depth at the start. Most people will respect a stutterer who chooses to be friendly. It's always worked with me. I rarely don't get ...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2018
3 points

There isn't really a way to overcome anxiety unless you face it. As a person who stutters, if I feel anxious, I tell myself that I feel anxious and that is ok. That I feel anxious because I stutter, t...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2018
2 points

Damn, that's awesome. Some stutterers just don't give a shit and I'm doing my best to get there some day. ...

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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2018
5 points

Thank you. I’ll try to ease up a little bit as I don’t think me being a bit anxious is helping at all! I’ll also stop all the offers of help. Thanks again ...

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